I remember the first time my wife got laid was in 2000, and I do forget that, after more than a decade of careful math, that feeling is still seared in my mind.
At that time our couple had been married for four years and had a boy and a girl.
My wife does not work, full-time care of children, the relationship between husband and wife is good, the only thing that has always been the lack of sex between the regret, but also the main reason why we will be exposed to this kind of activities.
My wife is a traditional Puli hill town girl, not beautiful, but very elegant and simple life.
I’ve had two men before me, with three sexual experiences, and all of the relationships were initiated and half-assed.
Her pre-marital sex life may have been affected by her experience and her unmarried status, so her response was less enthusiastic but still acceptable, and she cooperated with all my requests, and at that time I thought that she would improve after marriage.
However, things did not go as planned, the situation is getting worse and worse, the response to lovemaking cold, can not be gouged and touched, even the basic cooperation is difficult, for this many times to communicate, only to learn that she actually have “sex is not to have a child before you need it?” The deviation concept.
At that time, I was on the verge of fainting! But considering that she was really obedient to me except for sex, and that she took care of things at home, I just wanted to see what could be done to change the situation.
At that time, I just started to contact the Internet, only to know the exchange or 3P …… new things, but also in the network to meet some friends, by mail and telephone, I understand that couples can also have different changes, but how to communicate with his wife is a big problem, and I myself is also the same the first time, the self-knowledge is also limited.
At the beginning and his wife said that he wanted to make some changes, looking for couples exchange or a male threesome, his wife’s reaction can be imagined, the refusal is certain, after about a dozen times of communication, there is still no result.
In a fortuitous opportunity to meet the small Chen, but also later taught me the enlightenment of the teacher of the finger oil, when he was in Taipei, through the phone chat small Chen understand our problems, but also provide me with advice, I accept his advice, by the finger oil pressure to let his wife get used to the other men’s contact first.
As a result, once again communicate with his wife, I talk a little fire, my wife also felt, in my proposal to first try finger oil pressure, mother-in-law only reluctantly agreed, but because of the small Chen time and work problems, can not be coordinated, through the newspaper to find a professional massage male teacher.
Initial communication was done over the phone to finalize the time and place.
The appointment was at a nearby hotel that night, and I told my mother-in-law two hours beforehand that afternoon, and she stammered nervously, looked at me and nodded.
I waited for the time to arrive with anticipation and anxiety, thinking that I would finally be able to take the first step and just hoping that the day would go smoothly.
Time passed slowly, but the appointed time was approaching and I drove up to call my mother-in-law to inform her that it was almost time.
When she saw her mother-in-law walk out of the doorway, she could feel her deliberate dressing and couldn’t help but feel happy.
She got into the car and we didn’t talk on the way out, but I could feel my wife’s nervousness and unease, and I reassured her to try to relax; to stop if she didn’t feel good.
She only nodded once, wanting to say something, as if she had something to say, but I knew she might back off.
By this time, we had reached the parking lot of the hotel, we arrived at the appointed room, rang the doorbell, only to see a young man in his early twenties open the door and enter the room, my mother-in-law went to the restroom, and I noticed that she had never looked at the other person squarely throughout.
However, the man’s eyes remained fixed on my wife until she entered the restroom! The man kept his eyes on her until she went into the restroom, then he came back to me and talked to me. I told my wife what was going on and what I wanted, and I made it clear that I had no bottom line, and that I would let her have her own way depending on the situation.
After a while, the mother-in-law came out, but how to know that the clothes remain intact, through the other side of the guide, she only took off the face of the difficult, lying on the bed, the other side of the convenience of the hand to help her acupressure, but every important parts, always deliberately touch, mother-in-law in the he touched the sensitive parts of the body will be uneasy to move.
After a short period of acupressure, the other party, on the pretext of having to do oil pressure, took off his body clothes and wore only his small boxers, only to see that his pants had already pitched up a tent, and his penis was almost running out to meet people, so it was obvious how much attraction his mother-in-law had for him.
He picked up the essential oil and poured it on his wife’s back, pushing and pressing it repeatedly, and slowly came to the lower half of her body, only to see him staring at Granny’s pussy, trying to tease it, and Granny was shaking uneasily before he shifted his target and pushed and pressed the legs, but still looking for the opportunity to touch Granny’s pussy and asshole from time to time, and seemingly forgetting about my existence, concentrating on playing with his playthings.
At this point he asked the granny to change to the front side, only to see her eyes closed and her eyelids changed a little with the part of the oil pressure.
Carefully looking at the granny on the bed, although not very beautiful, slender body, delicate skin, small bosom, sparse pubic hair, delicate pussy is her fatally sensitive part.
Usually make love she is always reluctant to let me touch, make love as long as accompanied by pumping and then give clitoral stimulation, not long to immediately reach orgasm, and now the mother-in-law is letting a strange man play with her pussy.
By now the oil pressure had become a piece of cake, and he was already concentrating on teasing his wife, sucking her nipples and teasing her clit and pussy with his mouth and hands.
At some point he took off his underwear, and his crotch was already throbbing with a sword, he intentionally or unintentionally touched Granny with his penis; and Granny shook her body from time to time, I don’t know whether it was pleasure or uneasiness, only to see that she cooperated with him and didn’t refuse.
As he got down between her legs and teased her pussy with his tongue, her shaking increased and her pussy was covered in either lust or saliva.
He moved his tongue upwards and his lower body shortened the distance between his penis and her pussy, and he took the opportunity to test her pussy with his penis, and he looked at me as if asking for my consent.
I could just see him sucking on my mother-in-law’s nipples as he dispatched the angle to attack, he tried to sink down, his little head grinding against her pussy, slowly entering it, I couldn’t help but rub myself with my hands at this point.
He tried to penetrate deeper into Granny’s fortress, but there seemed to be a hindrance, and I felt strange when I realized that Granny’s body was stiff and her face was taut.
His movements were slowly getting louder and louder, my mother-in-law was making small noises with his movements, but his little head still couldn’t get in, and that’s when I stopped him from going any further and also asked him to leave first.
When he finished dressing and left, I turned and hugged my mother-in-law, who initiated a kiss with me and clasped my hardness in her hand.
I touched my mother-in-law’s pussy and realized that her pussy was unusually not wet, I lovingly stroked my mother-in-law’s love pussy, and suddenly the love juices gushed out as if a dam had been breached to commit a crime.
I lifted my sword-raised dick and drove it into my mother-in-law’s love hole, which hungrily engulfed my hardness, sucking on it greedily.
I pumped as hard as I could, pounding Granny’s pussy with such force that she moaned from time to time.
My mother-in-law’s breathing became more and more rapid with my movements, she was close to orgasm and I felt a rush of uncontrollable sensations.
Finally my wife let out an orgasmic moan, her body shaking and stiffening uncontrollably, her loins thrusting upward so desperately that my 75-pound body actually moved in time with her movements.
At that moment a thrill went through my horse’s eye and I yelled, “Fuck you!” My wife hugged me tightly, “Cum for me!” At this time my billions of sperm also synchronized all shot into my wife’s pussy.
The two of them embraced each other, and after an unknown period of time, I asked my wife why he hadn’t been able to enter just then. She didn’t know why, all she knew was that she didn’t have any desire at the time, and when he tried to enter, her vagina convulsed and closed tightly, so he couldn’t get in.
I thought to myself that maybe he was being too pushy, as was I, and wasn’t letting my wife fully let go, depending on the situation, which was one of the deterrents to our threesome path later on.
If I have the chance, I will post my real experience one after another, and I hope that all the residents will not hesitate to give me advice.
(Chapter 2) After the last unsuccessful contact, his wife has been repulsed by the threesome, and has refused many invitations to talk more about it.
That’s when I got a call from Chen, who was coming to Taichung for a week’s stopover for work.
In the help of small Chen to receive the wind mentioned his wife situation, and asked him to the experience of the past to provide advice, small Chen just smiled and said: “As long as she can accept, the man to her nude massage, to become a thing should not be difficult.”
And he said he was willing to cooperate in trying to see if he wanted to.
But the premise is to cooperate with his steps, he asked me: one, to be there can, but try not to let my wife feel that I was there, it is best to make my wife think that I am not there the best.
Second, tell your wife that if she doesn’t feel good, she can stop right away, and the mastery is entirely hers.
(c) Afterward, no inappropriate remarks may be made in future conversations between husband and wife about the matter.
I thought the third thing are difficult, and and Xiao Chen familiar with no other scruples, I promised Xiao Chen home that began to make arrangements.
Mr. Chen asked, “What are your sister-in-law’s sexual preferences?” I told him everything. I told him one by one that my mother-in-law does not like prior caressing foreplay and prefers to go straight to it; because of her small breasts, she does not like people to play with her breasts; her orgasms are mostly pumped to the halfway mark, in a way that teases her clitoris while pumping; and she has to cope with oral sex, not to mention her ass.
After hearing this, Xiao Chen said that if I could keep the first two agreements, he was sure that he could show me a different side of my wife as long as she was willing to come out.
I asked Chan skeptically why he was so sure. He said that most women would refuse to hear about this and would not agree to make any attempts, and that the fact that she could be naked and let a man touch her, even though she had responded to my request, meant that she had the potential qualities to accept such a thing.
This theory has since been fulfilled in other sorority partners as well.
In addition, she usually refused, mostly because the object is the husband, so a little feel wrong, that is, refused not willing to try, but when the object is replaced by someone else, she will be embarrassed to stop or refuse, but have the opportunity to feel different feelings.
After listening to him, it makes sense when you think about it.
On the way home after dinner, I dropped Xiao Chen off at a motel near my house, and on the way home, I thought about how I was going to convince my wife again.
Suddenly thought of a good way, first call and Xiao Chen contact, informed me of the plan, Xiao Chen also think it is good, then act according to the plan.
Back home and his wife gossip, by the way to take the topic of 3P to test his wife, unexpectedly mother-in-law today’s reaction is particularly good, only laughing and scolding perverts, told me not to mess around.
Without further ado, I tried to press on my wife’s shoulder, and she said, “My shoulder feels sore just today, so I’ll press it more.”
I thought to myself, God help me! At this point at nine o’clock Xiao Chen called as promised and I put on a show with him to end the conversation.
Turning to my mother-in-law, I told her that my friend had just arrived from Taipei and was staying at the attached motel, asking her that I should go over to entertain the other party.
My mother-in-law asked me, “What friend? Why haven’t I heard you say that before?” I said, “Didn’t I tell you earlier? I said, “Didn’t I tell you earlier that Mr. Chen, who is very good at oil massage and lives in Taipei, rarely comes down here, and it just so happens that the company temporarily sent him down for a week.”
She was about to ask again, I urged her to hurry up, Xiao Chen has not eaten, she only mouth are yelling to go to change clothes.
In the car I intentionally or unintentionally talked about Little Chan General, but never mentioned the threesome, lest she think too much about it.
Picked up Chen at the motel, introduced each other in the car and said hello, then went to a composite restaurant into the box.
Ordered a meal by the way on the pretext of ordering red wine, during the toast to the small Chen a cup (I really do not drink), that is to ask my wife for me to honor the small Chen, all of a sudden they have finished the red wine, the small Chen on the pretext that has not yet taken a shower, and would like to go back to the hotel first, so after the checkout is back to the hotel.
At this point I excused myself from the number one spot, so we entered the motel together, which was nicely partitioned, with a small living room and then the room.
After entering I went straight to the restroom, and when I came out, Xiao Chen had a tacit understanding that he would enter the shower and asked us to sit down for a while.
Granny signaled to go home, I said at least say hello and then go, after about ten minutes, Granny even told me that I want to go on the first, I was very happy, may have just drunk those wine to play a role.
At this time Xiao Chen is wrapped in a bath towel out, the mother-in-law may be really anxious, did not say anything that into the restroom.
At this point, I and Xiao Chen that we discussed the next step, I excused myself from drinking and wanted to take a break, this reason mother-in-law will not refuse, because she knows that I am a cup of water.
I namely lying on the sofa, the mother-in-law out, I said the mother-in-law just smiled and laughed: “Really useless, every time this.”
I casually suggested to my wife, “Aren’t you feeling sore in your shoulders today? Let Xiao Chen help you press it.”
My mother-in-law said that she was embarrassed that they had come all the way here, but Chen immediately expressed his enthusiasm and willingness, leaving my mother at a loss as to how to refuse, so I said, “Well, don’t let them down, I’ll rest here for a while, and you guys go to the bed, where Chen’s massage is more convenient.”
My mother-in-law did not say anything, and had gone inside with Xiao Chen, and my bit just could see everything on the bed, only to hear Xiao Chen say, “Sister-in-law want to take a shower? When the oil on your body is rinsed again after pressing, and drink a cup of water, it will feel very comfortable.”
My mother-in-law wanted to say that just have sweating, rinse a little better, so she went into the bathroom to rinse.
At this time Xiao Chen asked me whether there is no limit, I think that in addition to the mother-in-law is not willing to, the rest to his own discretion, as for the internal injection to the mother-in-law to agree (previously wanted to play the event, six months ago that is, the arrangements for the installation of contraceptives, and we do not like to feel the feeling of wearing a condom).
Only to hear the sound of water in the bathroom has stopped, I then pretended to be asleep, Xiao Chen back to the bed to wait for the mother-in-law, only to see the mother-in-law surprisingly also wrapped in a bath towel came out, turned his head to look at my side, to see that I seem to be asleep, then walked towards the bed, polite and Xiao Chen said, “Sorry, but also troublesome to you.”
Chen said, “It’s okay, it’s my professional project.”
Granny lay down according to Chan’s instruction, but the bath towel was wrapped tightly, Chan then helped Granny to do acupressure from top to bottom, from Granny’s body movements, it can be felt that Chan’s power to make Granny relax, and Chan’s acupressure in the middle of the rules, no matter to do the front and the back of the body are the same, it can be felt that Granny is not wary of, and enjoy it.
After the backside was done, I only heard Xiao Chen say softly, “OK, turn over the front side, next we have to do the oil pressure.”
While Granny rolled over, Chen spoke up, “It’s easier to do the oil-pressure bath towel to take it off.”
Granny paused for a moment, about to pull off the towel.
Xiao Chen poured the essential oil into the palm of her hand and delicately pushed and rubbed it, when it came to her breasts, Xiao Chen said very quietly, “Take off your bra, or it will be stained by the oil.”
I then proceeded to undo my mother-in-law’s bra and did not see her reject it.
He pushed and rubbed Granny’s breasts with all his heart, only to see Granny’s lips trembling slightly, while Xiao Chen’s hand pushed and rubbed along the breasts from the outside to the inside, Granny’s modest breasts after Xiao Chen had pushed and rubbed them a lot, the nipples had hardened at some point, and Granny seemed to have swallowed her saliva a lot more often.
At that moment, my cell phone suddenly rang loudly, so I immediately went outside under the pretext of listening to the phone and fixed the door so that I wouldn’t have to make any noise when I came in later.
Walking out of the room about to turn off the phone and peeking through the door to see what was going on inside, not daring to make a sound.
Although he was interrupted by the phone call, Xiao Chen immediately made Granny forget about his oil pressure again, only to see that he had already reached the part of the abdomen, Xiao Chen was removing Granny’s panties with both hands, and Granny cooperated by lifting up her hips so that Xiao Chen could remove her panties smoothly.
Xiao Chen is still using skillful techniques to push and rub, from the belly slowly to the secret forest of Granny, passing through the loose grassland, only to see his fingers gently slipped through, his wife’s body trembled, her legs moved uneasily.
Then Xiao Chen used his palm to wrap the whole of his hand around his wife’s pussy and gently pushed and rubbed it a few times, and his wife’s whole lower body instantly tightened up.
At this time Xiao Chen has shifted positions, down to the thighs, rhythmically pushing and kneading, every time to the root, seems to deliberately avoid the mother-in-law’s fortress, and then down to the calves and soles of the feet, at this time, instead of the center of gravity are placed on the legs and soles of the feet.
My mother-in-law’s body relaxed again, but instead there was a slight throbbing as Xiao Chen’s hand approached the root, feeling a little expectant and a little uneasy.
Everything was so quiet at the moment, the air was a little stressed and full of lust.
Xiao Chen signaled his wife to switch to the back, I found my mother-in-law looked around and seemed to be looking for me, did not see, her eyes flashed a trace of uneasiness, but then closed her eyes.
And Xiao Chen has taken the opportunity to take off the only remaining underwear, at this time the bed of the mother-in-law does not know, he deliberately not let his wife to touch his body, but instead attentively pushed and kneaded the mother-in-law’s back, and whispered to ask the mother-in-law: “comfortable?” She did not answer, but only nodded.
At this point Xiao Chen signaled that I understood that the next would be the main event, and that my wife’s first external food after marriage was about to take place in front of my own eyes.
Xiao Chen had already shifted his weight below his hips, only to see that unlike before, when his hand reached the root it stayed longer than once, and the movement was getting bigger and bigger, so it could be seen that he had already launched an attack on Granny’s honey hole.
And Granny’s legs had opened up at some point, as if to cooperate with Xiao Chen.
Xiao Chen’s fingers were already covered with granny’s lewdness, and her body would squirm due to Xiao Chen’s movements.
At this time, Xiao Chen sat on her hips and pushed and pressed her back, and she seemed to feel something strange, her eyes slightly opened, and after a while then closed her eyes, and her breathing became a bit rapid.
With an oil-pressing motion, Xiao Chen pushed his cock against Granny and teased her with his tongue from top to bottom again, while his hand pressed Granny’s nectar with intent.
Xiao Chen used his body to signal his mother-in-law to turn over to the front, and I saw that she had been drinking or had become aroused, and her face was flushed. Xiao Chen used his tongue to tease her nipples directly from the side, and his hands were even showing their techniques to tease her peach blossom source, and the love juice was already flooding with “slurping, slurping” noises.
Xiao Chen deliberately pressed his penis on Granny’s palm, from time to time deliberately teasing Granny with his penis, slowly Granny’s hand turned to gently touch Xiao Chen’s penis with her fingers, Xiao Chen attacked Granny’s honey hole with his tongue, and Granny’s hand had been uncontrollably rubbing his penis.
Later, his whole head was between Granny’s thighs, slowly moving up and down, and just as he was sucking on her nipples, his hands were fondly fingering her pussy.
Suddenly Xiao Chen’s lower body a Shen, Granny screamed, only to see his penis whole into Granny’s hole, accompanied by a powerful impact, he spoke in Granny’s ear, Granny did not respond …… (end chapter) Afterwards, Xiao Chen told me that, in order to want to make Granny feel needed, as well as personal attraction, he prayed in his ear to Granny to let him get it a little bit, a little bit is good.
I didn’t expect that she didn’t reject him, and he also helped her to do oil pressure after a while, and his fingers also kept wandering around her body, and the overall feeling of oil pressure at this time was just like an erotic tease.
Granny may be because of the stimulation of the party, the posture of the thighs seems to be beckoning wide open the door, Xiao Chen seize the opportunity to use his tongue to stimulate tease the honey hole, with the fingers of the pumping, looking at Granny slightly raised chin, belly from time to time to push into the scene, this scene makes my little brother sword, drooling, really want to rush forward to do some, but in order to let Granny can enjoy it, had to grit his teeth and hang in there.
At this time, Xiao Chen picked up a towel to wipe his penis, should not even want to attack Granny’s mouth, right? Xiao Chen’s mouth from the clitoris, abdominal femur, belly, navel, nipples, neck, ears …… finally came to Granny’s lips, slapdash test, while the hand wandered Granny’s forest.
Granny’s lips did not refuse, Xiao Chen lying on the side of Granny, I do not know when Granny’s hand has been holding his penis up and down the sleeve, from her movements, I know that Granny at this time the fire of desire has been ignited.
Xiao Chen hugged and kissed his wife, gently caressing her back and guiding her to his abdomen.
He used his body to hint to Granny, after a slight pause, Granny’s hand then fiddled with his hard cock, Granny slowly moved her head to Xiao Chen’s cock, at this time I could see clearly Xiao Chen’s cock, compared to the length of my own longer and thicker, purple-black glans large and smooth, and provocatively in the shaking.
Granny looked at it and opened her mouth to take it in, her tongue picking at the glans like a snake’s letter, her hand caressing the root, and at this point Xiao Chen’s dick was throbbing like a beast that had been suppressed for a long time.
Watching my mother-in-law’s mouth with someone else’s cock, I felt a mixture of sourness and excitement, and the cock in my hand was already involuntarily hard, so I wanted to go up and forcefully fuck into the wild food pussy, but the excitement of watching outweighed the thrill of the actual fight.
Xiao Chen probably couldn’t stand the teasing of Granny either, and pulled her upwards with both hands, wanting to start in a woman-on-top-male fashion.
This is usually granny’s least favorite move (too tired, and fuck too deep), did not expect really as Xiao Chen said, granny did not refuse, but obediently moved, and took the initiative to use his hand to hold his cock against their own pussy, he gently pushed up to granny’s honey hole.
Granny’s lust covered his cock as he pushed up solidly, and Granny instantly sat on him with soft feet, her thick cock swallowed whole by Granny’s lustful pussy, and Granny slumped helplessly on top of him.
After a while, Granny’s hips were already bobbing up and down, and white lewd liquid offenses were all over Xiao Chen’s cock hairs, he got up and hugged Granny, and the two of them intertwined their tongues together.
He picked up Granny and put her on the bed, then held up his big cock wildly pumping, Granny involuntarily let out a moan, hand tightly grasping the bed sheet, let the thick cock pumping, closed his eyes to enjoy the pleasure brought by the pumping, with the rhythm of his ramming, sometimes biting his lips, sometimes deep breaths, and with the pumping of the intersection also came out a burst of “tsk … …” sound. …Tsk ……” sound.
Xiao Chen guided Granny to change her position, he sat and pumped while teasing her clit with his hand.
This is the fatal death knell of Granny, and I betrayed the information that Granny provided to Xiao Chen.
Under his skillful technique, Bra’s belly clenched from time to time, a precursor to her impending orgasm.
My mother-in-law’s slutty pussy sucked on it like a hungry baby sucking on a pacifier.
I called Xiao Chen, signaling that my mother-in-law was about to have an orgasm, and Xiao Chen changed the force and rhythm of his pumping.
After another furious pumping session, Granny let out a moan of satisfaction and hugged him tightly.
At this time, the force of his charge was so great that it could really be described as a mountain of mountains and seas.
When she slowly relaxes and regains her composure, they switch to doggy style, Xiao Chen fucks her from behind, playing with her untouched asshole with his hand, his big cock is still as hard as a rock, and his pumping has switched to a shallow to deep, slow but solid penetration into her pussy.
Xiao Chen gestured back for me to join in, and I quickly made my way to my mother-in-law’s side, who looked at me coyly as I lay down in front of her, and I touched her face, realizing that it was as hot as if she had a high fever.
I asked, “Comfortable?” My mother-in-law nodded sheepishly and then took my cock voluntarily.
Never before had I felt such a rush and longing, and as if to make it up to me, my mother-in-law had never sucked me so hard, her tongue wrapping around my glans like a spirit snake in her mouth.
Xiao Chen purposely fucked her vigorously when she was deep in her mouth, and she couldn’t stand his impulses and stopped moving, lying helplessly on top of me.
After almost an hour of pumping, Xiao Chen seemed to be on the verge of an orgasm, and he pumped faster and fucked so hard that my mother-in-law no longer had time to help me suck.
Suddenly, Xiao Chen pulled Granny into a positive position, thrusting rapidly and rubbing her clitoris vigorously with his hand, and Granny seemed to have another wave of orgasm as he fucked her.
He held Granny and kissed her, and Granny’s hands clung to his hips as if she was trying to shove him whole into her slutty pussy.
I heard Little Chan ask Granny, “I’m coming, can I cum in there?” Granny closed her eyes and nodded yes, only to see him frantically and vigorously fucking her pussy, roaring and shooting all of his semen into her pussy, while Granny clung to him with both hands.
Xiao Chen took a break to get up from his wife and went to the bathroom to clean up first.
I feel my mother-in-law’s pussy with my hand, and it’s red. I don’t say a word, but I fuck my mother-in-law’s pussy with my cock, and she moans in response, hugging me tightly, her mouth tightly intertwined.
Today’s excitement was too great, I pumped, suddenly felt a soreness in my horse’s eye, and the semen that had been accumulated for a long time ran into my wife’s body as if it had broken down the embankment.
Cuddling with my wife and resting a little, a moment later, Xiao Chen has come out, we couples together into the bathroom.
When I bathed my mother-in-law, her slit was still hot and her semen was dripping out.
I laughed and asked Granny, “Does it feel good?” My mother-in-law smiled sheepishly and didn’t answer, but the answer must have been yes.
This contact started my colorful sex life for the next three years, and Chen became our regular partner until our careers moved west to the mainland.
I am very grateful to him, over the past year he has taught me many concepts derived from practical experience, as well as skills in finger oil pressure techniques, so that I will benefit a lot in the days to come, our first successful threesome ended here, but also allows me to lead many first-time couples to break through the first time smoothly.