One day, I’m not too busy, in the company also has nothing to do, a thought for a long time with his wife to eat outside, drove to her unit, I would like to give her a surprise, did not call her. After arriving there, I parked the car across the street from her unit, not long before the end of the day, I did not go in, want to wait for her there.
Just then, I saw a Honda drive by in front of their bank, and I didn’t care too much about it, so I glanced at it without thinking, and suddenly I realized that my wife had gotten out of the car. I saw a middle-aged man in the car rolled down the window, my wife bent down, the man whispered something in her ear, my wife smiled and hit him twice, the man laughed and turned the car around and drove away.
My wife stood there, ran her hand through her somewhat disheveled hair, and gazed at the shadow of the distant car as she turned to go inside the bank. My heart sank at that moment, but I didn’t think too much of it when I thought maybe it was one of her important customers.
After a short while my wife got off work, I drove the car over, and as soon as she saw me, she had a very surprised look on her face, but got in the car without saying much. I said, “Let’s go out to eat together tonight.” She said happily, “Sure! I’m tired after a long day at the office and I don’t want to cook when I get home.” I said, “You are really busy! You’re exhausted, aren’t you?” She said, “No, I’ve been chained up all day in the unit, and I haven’t even stepped out of the door.”
I heard a heart giggle, deliberately pay attention to her, see my wife’s face is obviously just make-up, hair, although just combed, but look closely can still be seen there is a trace of messy.
“Why are you looking at me? Do not recognize me?” Said his wife pampered hit me, I instantly thought of the scene I just saw – his wife smiled and hit the man’s appearance.
Dinner I was tasteless, but my wife happily a hard with me pampering, I looked at her happy look, do not dare to think about it, the heart blocked very difficult. Night home wife is very passionate, tossed in bed in the middle of the night.
The next day I paid attention to the wife’s whereabouts, but a series of two or three months did not find any abnormal behavior, so let go of the heart, think or I am too careful! Just when I put my heart down, but found another thing that makes me suspicious.
I found out that my wife had changed her cell phone to vibrate since I don’t know when, and a few times when we were together, I saw her sneak her hand into her bag and hang up the phone, so I pretended I didn’t see it. Sometimes I’m tempted to turn her bag over and check it, but I’m afraid that if she finds out, it will affect our relationship.
My wife used to come home and always put her bag casually, but now she is always very careful to put it in her line of sight, I really can’t do anything about it? Suddenly I remembered, her cell phone card is to use my ID card to do, if something happens, certainly can be found out.
After thinking about this, I immediately went to the communications company, and after pulling up the phone list, I took a look at it. There is a number with her contact very frequently, they are in contact every day, up to nearly thirty times. Now that I had a clue that proved I was right, the next step was for me to catch them in the act.
She was careful, but surely there had to be a time when she was negligent, right? One day the opportunity finally came. That time I came home, found her bag at home, people do not know where to go, I quickly open the bag, out of the cell phone, open the text message to see is that number, the text message that the man called her “my baby”, she called him “husband”. From the text messages, it seems that they have been on more than one date, and the content of the words is very physical.
This day, my wife called, said the night not to go home for dinner, there is a sister’s birthday, she has to be a little late to come back. I immediately stopped working to go to her unit, but do not dare to open their own car, hastily borrowed one from a friend, in the near end of the day has been waiting there.
Sure enough after work, the Honda drove over on time, my wife glowing out of the door, directly on the car, I have been following them. Followed to a hotel, far from seeing them down from the car, the man half embracing half hugged my wife into the hotel, the man also lowered his head from time to time in her ear saying something, so that she could not help but pampered to wring the man’s face.
Watching them go in, my whole heart seems to have been emptied, alone in a restaurant opened a bottle of wine and drank it dry, choking me to tears. Not long after the alcohol came up, feel the sky spinning, call my friend to let the car away, call a cab back home.
Back home are nearly eleven o’clock, the wife is not back. Dinner did not eat anything, the belly is turning over, all of a sudden even at noon did not digest all vomit out, I fell in the living room also have no strength to get up, vomit on the body, the ground is full of dirt, not a moment on what do not remember …… When I woke up has been late at night, I am also in bed lying it, headache like to blow up like. Through the doorway, I saw my wife busy in the living room, my whole body clothes were changed, and my body was wiped clean. Looking again, it was past two o’clock late at night, so I called out to her.
My wife came in and said, “Wake up?” She poured me a glass of water and brought me some pills for me to take. She scolded me and said, “Seeing that I am not at home, why did you drink so much? Who did you drink with? You won’t stop drinking? This is very hurtful to the body.” I did not say anything, looking at her busy for me, words to the mouth did not say.
Yes, we’ve been together for a few years now, and gradually we’ve lost sight of some things. But I still love her! She can’t treat me like this! Who should I talk to? I don’t dare to talk to my family for fear that my mom and dad will get angry, and I’m even more afraid that my nieces and nephews will get me into trouble.
After determining that my wife cheated on me, I was planning in pain …… Since I knew about it, I have been living in pain, but on the surface, I still have to force a smile, life is so tiring! I even have to lose the courage to live. In the past, I have a happy family, career is also a small success, friends are envious of me, this thing if people know, how can I still live ah? What should I do? My mind is really blank. Who can tell me what to do?
That’s the kind of thing no one can stand! I wanted to go over there and waste that man, but I have a family, my parents, my siblings, and a very young child, and the responsibilities of my life are far more important than that.
After a few days of deep thought, I decided to transfer the family property first, which was the first step; when I had finished everything, I would come to the bottom and walk away. I put the plan specifically to consider the mature began to take action: first, I called a distant classmate, only to tell him that I want to do a business, to pass a bill from his company. After getting his consent, I began to prepare for the work, I am going to transfer the money and then use the money to register another company, and then from there to my aunt’s house, in this case, she can not be found.
After everything was ready, I talked to my wife. I said, “My classmate’s company in the south has good benefits, but it lacks capital and wants us to take shares.” My wife said, “That’s good! But you have to make an on-site visit, and then show me the company’s details, I’ll see if I can invest?”
These are small dishes, a few days down the road I’m done. My wife was very relieved to give me all the family money, I look, while the iron is hot, said: “Let’s put the house out of the mortgage, a little more loan funds will turnover faster.” She said yes, and soon it was done.
When it was all done, my heart was empty, looking at her carefree face, I really wondered what she should be like when she found out about all this.
In the days to come, I often reported to her that the development of the shares is a big one, immediately after I am also on this side of the preparation for the withdrawal of capital. Look at her in the dark, I feel bad.
One day I suddenly asked her, “What if we have nothing left?” She smiled and said, “Money is not earned! In the past, we also had nothing, but we still lived on. Why are you so weird today, why do you ask?” I was silent.
To be honest, I’m just too soft-hearted, see my wife to me unsuspecting, I really can’t bear to cheat her. There are times when I do not want to say with her, but the words to the mouth and swallowed. I don’t want to say anything, now treat her well! Every weekend, we pick up the children from their parents’ home, spend a pleasant holiday together, go to the park, shopping malls. Late at night, I often wake up alone, looking at her curled up beside me sleeping, I really can not bear to just abandon her.
One thought welled up in my mind: forget it! I do not go to expose her, give her more considerate, care, let her feel the warmth of home, go to the end of their own, as a cloud drifting by. I really do not want to let the home, let the child hurt, the child is still small, if the damage to be far more than adults, I big deal to find another, but what about the child? Hey, stay at home for a long time is sad and indecisive.
Thinking so much, I gave up quite a lot of things to take care of my home during those days, and I would often hug my wife and tell her deeply, “I love you!” Every time she was so excited that her tears shimmered and her eyes reddened. That period of time from the inside I really have forgiven her, even tube she has been kept in the dark do not know, I think maybe she will end, and in the future I will not let her know my discovery.
As I was about to forgive her, something else irritated me.
It had seemed to me that there was still a possibility of reconciliation, and if that happened, I would never speak of my discovery, not letting it make that crack that just made my heart drip blood. But once again, she let me down.
That day is my wife’s birthday, I bought a watch to give her in the evening dinner. In the afternoon I went over to find her, invited her to have a candlelight dinner tonight, but she said strongly that something could not go at night, I asked her: “Really something?” I asked her, “Are you sure?” She said, “Yes.” But her eyes did not dare to look at me, and her hands involuntarily pulled at her clothes.
“Does it have to be today?” I asked, “Uh-huh.” She nods. I said, “Well then, I’m going to my dad’s house for dinner tonight.” I was so mad I wanted to give her a big slap in the face, but I held my tongue. I went straight to my dad’s house, and after dinner I took the kids to play, and I wasn’t going to go back for the night.
Late at night, the phone called, I did not answer, over and over again, simply I turned off. She came by cab again, I was afraid to wake up my parents, so I went back with her.
“Are you angry? I’m really not okay, I’m sorry.” My wife said with an apology and I said, “No, I just got sleepy and fell asleep here.”
“Why didn’t you call? No one answered even when I called you, it’s really worrying, I thought something had happened to you! I thought something had happened to you! You’re a big girl now, and you’re still worrying people like a child!” She was blaming me sentence by sentence, I really wanted to scold her to relieve my anger.
Back home lying in bed, I am simply no sleep at all, my cavity of anger want to vent. I got up and went to the bathroom, a glimpse of her thrown on the sink panties, I look, there is a sticky piece of liquid, the fire ran up. In the past, she changed them in time to soak them in the basin, but today I may not be at home, and she was so anxious that she forgot to do it.
At that time, I was a hot head, all of a sudden scurried into the kitchen to carry out the kitchen knife, came to the bed, but I remembered the lovely children, the heart is soft. I went into the bathroom to open the cool water rushed on the body, when my wife got up and asked me: “late at night do not sleep why?” I said: “hot, I rinse.”
“Why are you taking a shower and holding a kitchen knife?” She was full of questions and I stammered, “I …… I’m not sleepwalking, am I?” She laughed, “Go to sleep! Don’t toss and turn.”
Back to bed, my wife head into my arms, I really want to kick her down. Impulse is the devil, really terrible, or how many loved ones must be in pain tomorrow, but that person will still live in style. I’m going to leave, push my wife to him, this tragedy let them go to play!
The next day my wife saw the watch I bought her and hugged me excitedly, asking me to put it on her, saying, “I’m sorry, I really shouldn’t have spoiled your fun.” I said, “It’s okay, as long as you can be happy and joyful, that’s my wish.” I kept sending her to the unit, and she still couldn’t get off.
When it comes down to it, I’ll have to pick up the pace and implement my plan.
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Since that time, my wife came home more often, and no longer very late to come home, in addition to the necessary social functions, mostly at home, every time will do some of my favorite food waiting for me to come back, in this quiet days to cover the inner world.
I took a trip down south in order to get my project done as quickly as possible. After a few days of busy, completed my wish. Walking alone at night along the river road, looking at the Pearl River shrouded in the night, the heart is full of sadness, can not help but call home, no one answered; and hit her cell phone, off.
I came home from the south depressed, and when I saw her big smile, I really didn’t know who she was pleasing for. Looking at her busy figure, I wanted to say to her, “I’m leaving you.” Every day I always walk out of the house wearing her washed and ironed clothes, who will do this for me again? Every day I walk out of the house, I always think: Will I come back today? When I can’t come back, this house will be someone else’s. Where will she go? To her mom’s house, or to that person’s house? She will definitely go back to her mother’s house. That person has a family and will never dare to bring a woman home.
Every month I still went to get my phone bill out and they were still in frequent contact. During that time I peeked at her text messages again and I wanted to slap him. The content was so angry and acidic to read, I would have killed him in a heartbeat if he was in front of me!
The man came through with, “My little baby, and my beautiful arc, let me sleep quietly with your cute little white rabbits on my pillow.” She returned, “You bad! You bad! You bad bad …… I’m going to make you can’t get up!”
And: “When I woke up this morning, the scent of your tongue was still lingering, your beautiful ass was still in my arms from last night, and my life-giving root was still feeling the warmth of your pussy. I want your moaning high song and that wonderful peak.” What she returned was, “I’m looking forward to that next moment of smooth beauty.”
When my wife’s affair was exposed, I tried to cover for her.
I am stepping up the last shares of the low bet out, I plan can be in and out: if she must fight with me, I will give up and go; if she does not fight, then I also take back the shares still live my normal life. But at this point in time, the human plan is not as good as God’s plan, a thing to my plan all to disrupt.
That night I was having dinner with friends, my nephew called me in a hurry, let me go over immediately. In a rented room I met him, a look inside sitting more than ten people, the table with machetes and steel pipe, I asked him: “What’s wrong?” You said, “What? You are still living quite nourishing, people put a big green hat on you, you are still there in the poor happy it! Come with me tonight and chop him up. They’re in a Honda in the western suburbs!”
My head exploded when I heard that, and I said, “You’re mistaking me for someone else, aren’t you? No way.” I thought to myself that if I went there, all my plans would be over, and something big was definitely going to happen.
“I can recognize the wrong person? Do you think I’m blind? That kid is in construction, he owns a construction and installation company, and last time he asked my friend to give him a fight. My friend said to me, ‘His girlfriend is your aunt.’ I didn’t believe him at the time, but after a few days of watching, I caught him. It’s not the first or second time, and I was ready to call you today.” He was yelling at me.
I said, “If it’s true, I’ll take care of it, so don’t be nosy.”
“What? I asked you to go to the scene, you don’t go, you are a soft egg ah! If you don’t go, I’ll chop you up!” With that he picked up a machete. Looking at his red eyeballs, I’m sure he’ll chop over.
“Well then, go. You’ve got to let me change my clothes and shoes too!” I said.
“Okay.” In no time at all he had found shoes and clothes.
Something happened on that trip, and based on that connection, the first thing the police must have suspected me of doing was that it was too good a case to solve, and I had to tell them to go away.
I was wondering how to notify my wife, so I said, “You guys go downstairs first, I’ll come down after I change my clothes.” After they went downstairs, I rushed to call my wife, once, twice, no answer. The third time finally got through, I told her that the child had a high fever and asked her to go back, she said, “Okay, right away.” I said, “No, right away. I’m going straight to the hospital.” You could hear her panic on the other side of the phone and a slight gasp. I wanted to go and cut them, but I couldn’t afford to lose a little.
I got on a Chinese bus and drove towards the western suburbs. Driving to the halfway point, that side of the stakeout called to say, the car drove away, chasing after them, but they quickly into the city. My nephew was so angry that his face was blue, and on the way back he suddenly said, “Old uncle, give me the phone to use.” I hesitated and handed it over, he pressed it a few times and said stop the car.
When he came down, he asked me why I called her. I said, “I don’t want anything to happen.” He slammed my cell phone down. He punched me, and I felt my head buzzing and blood running down my face. He was from the sports team, practiced sparring, punch after punch, I fell to the ground, fainted …… and woke up in the hospital.
It was hard to wake up, and there was only one of my nieces lying there crying by the bed. When she saw me wake up, she cried and asked me, “Do you know who hit you?” I said, “I don’t know, I don’t know them.” She wanted to call her husband to let him report the incident, but I firmly refused to let him, he is a police officer. Just let her call my wife and tell her I was in the hospital.
After a while, my wife rushed over, and when she saw me lying there, she cried and asked me what was wrong. She went back to see the child well, and then call me on the phone is not working. She went to the nearby hospital to look for me also did not find, and then go to the street to look for, worried not to get into a car accident, received a phone call and rushed over.
I did not say anything, only said: “Today someone called to say my father to take the child to see a doctor, no one at home to support him, called me to let me hurry over. I told you to go there first, I’ll be there in a minute, but I didn’t want to be blocked in the middle of the road, and I got beat up. I also do not know people, do not know why.”
Neither of us said much this night, and my wife watched over the bed with my niece. I watched her sitting on the side frozen in a daze, not knowing what she was thinking. Her messy hair and wrinkled dress made me feel like I had eaten a fly. We’re leaving anyway, don’t want to bother with her.
My wife confessed to me and begged me to forgive her.
The next day my elder sister came over to nurse me, and I forbade them to talk to the old people at home. My sister’s eyes were red from crying, and I thought to myself, “If something really happens, how can our family live? I couldn’t let my loved ones suffer for me.
My wife came over in the afternoon and brought me some soup. In the afternoon she did not go to work, in front of me I saw her phone vibrated, she did not pick up, a series of times she hung up, but the phone is still stubbornly moving, and then she simply gave off. I asked, “Why don’t you answer the phone?” She said, “A wrong number. I told him in the morning that it was a wrong number, but he still called.”
For her said I do not think, drowsy sleep. I woke up with a start and heard my wife on the balcony talking on the phone, she was saying, “Did you do this ……” Listening to the tone of voice she was arguing with someone, I knew she must have been arguing with the man. I could hear that she thought my beating had something to do with the man, that he had found someone to beat me up. I closed my eyes, not wanting her to know I was awake.
Then later, my wife sat there looking at me with tears falling down her face one by one. After seeing me open my eyes, she asked me, “Do you hate me?” When I didn’t answer, she cried and said, “I know you already know, I’m sorry, don’t do this to me, okay? I want to talk to you.” I looked at her with a look of indifference, “I love you, don’t leave me behind okay? I’m begging you ……”
Wife told me that before he was just a customer of hers, never deep friendship. Two years ago I left the unit, self-started business, but I have limited funds, friends invited me to partner, I have no money, she embezzled public funds in the unit, told me it was a loan. A long time to make up for it.
At this time, he learned with his wife in the relationship, took the initiative to take out the money to her to make up for it, she was very grateful to him, the interaction was frequent, and eventually under his attack, the male and female relations. Originally she wanted to return the money to him and then never come back, but his tenderness to let the wife trapped, every day in contact with her, so that she can not be cut off, she lived every day in self-blame.
“I know it’s wrong, I promise it will never happen again, I will love you so much, please forgive me okay?” The wife said and cried even more. What should I say? I really want to cry, although the man has tears, but I really tears down.
I loved her but she cheated on me and I would rather have a dull life than this. I ignored her, the next day I got out of the hospital, back home, we began to live apart, and I didn’t want to ignore her. Every day she always cleaned up the house, washed my clothes and made me a good meal, I still always ignored her, I’m leaving and never coming back.
I went back to my parents’ house and she came over crying and begging me not to leave her, “I love you and this family, don’t leave me.” I still ignored her. Shortly afterward, the house was transferred to someone else and she had to go back to her parents’ house.
During this time I knew that the man had looked for someone to fuck me, but as soon as he did, he heard that I was Sanmao’s oldest uncle and told him, and as soon as he heard about it, he was so scared that he ran out of town and went into hiding. His company could no longer find a market in the area, and my nephew let it be known that he would waste anyone who let him take a job. His wife took all the family property, and overnight rolled away all the property and ran off with a young guy. His wife was in charge of the finances at his company and likely knew about him already. This is all what one of my nephews said to me later.
Some reflections of my own on my beloved wife’s cheating on me.
Her family was devastated when they found out. His father was so angry that he was hospitalized, her mother aged a lot, and then we got a divorce. Not long after that, her mom called me out of the blue and said my wife had taken sleeping pills, so I rushed over. It was really hard for me to see the kind of pain she felt in the hospital when she had her stomach pumped.
In the corridor of the hospital, her mom knelt down to me at once: “I beg you to take her back! She knows she’s wrong, for the sake of our two old faces, you forgive her! Her father is lying at home, I just can’t take it anymore.” My tears flowed down.
In the days to come, I often went to their home to visit them, her father obviously better health, has been able to get down to walk. I’m afraid that their family is really going to break up, she is the only daughter, if something happens, how can the parents do ah? Now every weekend I take the child to their home, I really afraid of any failure, she is always careful when I go, I really do not know how to live in the future.
I didn’t sleep well last night, not that I’m too widowed. You know what? Can I be that selfish when I see my child with her, crawling around on top of her heckling, the kind of scene that no one can replace? I for one don’t like to fight, and I don’t do everything without thinking it through to maturity, and I’ve lost a lot to that. Childhood love to fight partners, some ate government food, some on the road of no return, I will never for their own momentary pleasure and on the road to extinction.
In the days when my wife was away, I communicated with her, talked many times, and I reflected on what I could not do. She herself is not a bad woman, she did not have the kind of spoiled, work conscientiously, home can be manipulated. When we first fell in love, we also loved each other to death, and gave me a lot of help. Thinking about this, I feel as if the mood is back to the original kind of sweet time.
After marriage, I have forgotten some of the past, but also ignored a lot of love for her, although I love her, but seldom directly to her to say “I love you”, always think that it is to put the horse when said. After the marriage together with less shopping, less play, less things too much, unlike then a day to see not in all attached. There is no help for her, only to ask for her love.
The wife’s pretty face, slim figure, youthful vigor, and the temperament created by several years of work environment, it is easy to be targeted by the man, just in a suitable opportunity to help her, creating an opportunity for him to approach.
My wife and I have talked about it, and she was wary of him at first, just general friend contact. The guy was too patient, and with his constant offense, and owing him a favor, it went beyond a normal relationship. I wanted to pay him back and be done with it, but I didn’t know I was stuck in it.
That man is very good at making women happy. There are some things I said that some people might say I’m talking in vain, so I’d better not talk about it! I’ve never taken my wife to the practice room, nightclubs and other places, always think that it is not a woman should go to the place. Now that I think about it, it’s necessary to take my wife to sing and dance when she’s not doing anything. I haven’t given her anything over the years, but I’ve asked too much of her.
I’m thinking of taking some time off! During this period of time to take her for a walk, give her more love. In the past, is idle nothing, but also with friends in the party together, with friends to play together, are saying that the wife is too annoying, always talking about their own troubles, never considered the wife’s feelings.