Anal sex isn’t just for gays and lesbians, it’s also one of the foundations of love between heterosexual men and women, and many men and women see anal sex as a flavoring agent for ordinary lovemaking. While it may not be for everyone, if you’re looking for something completely different outside of the monotony of bedtime, give it a try.
Why do people revel in anal sex? It turns out that anal sex is so intoxicating because of the many nerve endings around the asshole. When people try anal sex for the first time, they feel a lot of pain, but as long as they learn to relax, this pain will gradually turn into pleasure. For men, anal sex gives more stimulation to the prostate, which provides a rush of pleasure during orgasm.
unwind
The first thing you do to prepare for anal sex is to relax, which could include a hot bath, an erotic massage, or even warm-up exercises. The sphincter muscles around the asshole won’t let anything pass easily unless you are relaxed and start slowly. Give your partner the same attention and see if she feels just as relaxed.
lit. look first, wait second and pass third
At first there’s no rush to try her backyard with a dildo or a real one, but you should start with a fully lubricated finger. Slowly rotate your finger around the asshole and try to gradually insert it into the hole without forcing it in. If your partner feels uncomfortable, stop immediately (if you love her, don’t rush in like those boring porno novels, it’s rape), and use more lubrication if it’s more difficult to enter. If your female partner is still very uncomfortable, simply try again another day, because it is true that a finger can bring a strong shock to the anus.
It is worth noting that the human rectum is thin and curly, and any long, hard object may cause it damage. You should remove any rings from your fingers beforehand, and your fingernails should be clipped and smoothed. There are many positions and techniques for real anal sex, so choose the one you like best and feel comfortable with. Keep in touch with each other during the process so that adjustments can be made in time, and an accompanying videotape can be very helpful.
Since the rectum is sticky and easily damaged, plenty of lubricant is a must. Instead of Vaseline or petroleum-based lubricants, try water-soluble varieties. “A recommended brand is Essilor, which has spermicidal properties and is thought to be effective against some viruses such as HIV.
“Space Oil is also a good brand, but it contains relatively little oil. We are particularly fond of a lubricant called “Weet”, which has become quite popular in recent years. Anyway, you should keep in mind that the more lubricant you use, the more comfortable you and your partner will be. It is important to realize that the human asshole and rectum do not produce their own lubrication and are not as flexible as the mouth or vagina.
Condom use
Condoms are another necessity, and enemas and douches and the like are not going to get rid of all the bacteria in the rectum. Not only is anal sex more likely to spread STDs than any other type of sex, but it is also prone to urethral leakage and a number of other pathogenic diseases. That’s why a rubber membrane is necessary, not to mention the smooth feeling it provides. If you don’t know your sexual partner very well, it’s even more important to wear a condom. And there are many couples who, no matter how well they know and trust each other, never forget to wear a condom during anal sex.
a fairy points the way
Insert a finger into the asshole, which involves stroking the hole and the rectum. It is recommended to use the index or middle finger, as they are long and easy to use, and of course the finger should be lubricated with saliva or lubricant (nothing soapy should be used). Press your finger against the entrance to the asshole and begin to gently caress it. It’s not a bad idea to make circular motions around the hole, as this will bring a warming sensation to the partner and help with relaxation. Then gently but decisively insert your finger, which can be wiggled slightly.
After basic entry bend your fingers in a circular motion outward. At this point you will have the sensation of toileting, which will continue to intensify. Then feel a thick ring, this is the anus, which is above the anal canal and rectum. Keep your fingertips away from the anus or the contraction of the sphincter will suck it in. Now your fingers can start to explore a little, going as deep as they can, drawing circles around the anus and tapping on it. Then you can put in two fingers (or more) and try to spread them as wide as possible. If at this point your mouth is sucking on her clit or your other hand is rubbing her pussy, it will bring her to an unbelievable orgasm. Run your finger back and forth in and out of her ass hole, and that may enhance the pleasure of her orgasm one to several times over. This behavior can culminate in the act of plunging your entire fist into the hole and rubbing it or your arm back and forth against it (though MFM Studios does not advocate this practice in any way).
When a finger can already enter and exit the opening of the asshole with ease, it’s time to try something stronger, and it’s recommended to exercise the dilated sphincter regularly at the same time.
buggery
This is another form of anal sex that involves licking, poking and sucking with the tongue. Anal licking is considered an important part of “traveling the world” (kissing and licking all over the body).
You can either give your tongue a quick flick to the opening of your ass hole or insert it as far as it will go and then pump it back and forth.
You can also lick and wipe the hole, or suck hard as if you want to suck something out, and it is even better if you insert your tongue into the ass hole at the same time as you suck. If the licked person closes her stomach and relaxes, the hole will open wide and more parts of the body can be enjoyed. Of course, it’s even more erotic if you can use your tongue to penetrate her pussy or suck on her clitoris at the same time. In fact, the entire area between a woman’s legs is soft and sensitive to touch and licking.
What kind of stimulation do you enjoy the most?
1. Do you enjoy the back and forth motion of your fingers? If so, you should try a male partner’s dildo or anal toy. You can start experimenting with dildos (the kind commonly found in health stores), and it’s a good idea to use something that won’t break easily, such as plastic or rubber, since glassware can sometimes break. Waxed products are very popular because they feel good to the touch, but you run the risk of them breaking accidentally and leaving half of them inside you.
2. For those who prefer the sensation of being penetrated to being vibrated or pumped, it is recommended to use an anal plug, which is specially designed for this purpose. It is generally used to stuff in the ass hole without thrusting, and it may be worth pushing it in slowly in a rotating fashion. Another trick during anal sex is to be aware of the tightening and relaxing of the anus to match the thrusts of the man’s penis, to keep up with the beat. At this point you will feel your rectum crumple as you are pushed and shoved, and you can experience a coordinated rhythm inside and out if you do it correctly.
posturing
The back-facing position is a beginner’s position, where both partners are on one side of the bed, similar to rear-entry side-to-side intercourse in normal intercourse. This prevents the man from moving forward too quickly, while still allowing him to be in complete dominance, and is also closer to the female partner in order to know what she is feeling.
The missionary position is where the woman is facing the sky and the man is on top, using his hands to turn the woman’s legs over 180 degrees to fully expose her ass hole. This position allows the man to caress the woman’s pussy with his hand while he watches.
Doggy style is the shot that pops into most people’s heads when they think of anal sex, but this is the position where the penis or toy can go in the deepest, so it’s not for beginners. In this position, the woman’s hips are as high as possible, so she can maximize the opening of her ass hole, but of course the distance between the two parties is also farther away from each other than in other ways, which is suitable for those who are old hands in bed.
The forward position is where the woman lies down, with both knees scrunched up against her chest, against the man’s shoulders, while the man works out the job from the top down.
A pillow may be placed under the pelvis, or the man may push the woman’s feet over her head. This position also allows the man to enter easily and deeply.
Bend is one of the most popular positions in standing. The man and woman stand in the same direction, with the man at the back. The woman bends from the waist, leaning against a wall, table or any support (the woman can also lie on the bed with her knees on the floor next to the bed). If there is a big difference between the length of the legs of the man and the woman, some adjustments need to be made. This method is more commonly practiced outdoors, and as long as there is solid support, it is possible to perform larger movements.
The prone position is where the woman lies flat on her back with her hips slightly elevated by a pillow, at which point she should remain completely relaxed. The man lies on top of her and should also be as relaxed as possible. This way of doing it is more difficult, and the man’s penis must be to a downward angle to insert, not deep enough, and the range of pumping will also be limited.
Evolving from the prone position, both partners can lie on their sides at the same time and raise one leg. This method is both sides of the body can also be relaxed, and hands can be caressed each other, the same movement is quite restricted. But as long as you get used to it, you can still go deeper into the woman’s asshole.
Horseback riding is quite good because at this point the woman begins to take control, both in terms of speed and depth as she wishes. The man lies flat on his back and the woman rides above him, aiming her asshole at the penis. This kind of entry is also very convenient and deeper into the flesh, the man and can free his hands to caress. In addition, there is the reverse horseback riding style, this method is similar to a 180-degree turn of the prone position because the woman is easy to lean back.
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