I thought oral sex was the highest form of expressing love between two people, and there’s no better way to show your love than to show infinite reverence for a man’s sex organ.
basic movement
Gazing at his penis, and I don’t mean just glancing at it, but cupping his penis in your hand to express feelings of reverence. As you begin to touch him, his shaft will begin to stiffen, and that’s when you can begin to really scrutinize it. The first thing you’ll notice is whether or not he’s circumcised, and then you’ll take a closer look at the column of his penis, which has a bulbous shape at the top that’s slightly larger in diameter than the column, and that’s often referred to as the glans.
There is a small opening at the tip of the glans, which is where a man ejaculates. The most marginal part of the glans is called the glans ring, which connects the head and shaft of the penis, please note that this is the most sensitive part of it, when you suck your lover’s cock you should use a little more tenderness here, I like to call this place the soft groove, and I personally love a man’s soft groove the most.
The center where the glans meets the stem is one of the most tender places for a man, and if he hasn’t had surgery yet, it’s also where the foreskin is attached. You can potentially bring your partner to orgasm by simply touching this area with the tip of your tongue in a continuous, gentle motion. You may want to spend more time stroking the glans as well as around it.
Below the glans is the stem of the man’s sex organ, there aren’t many nerve endings there so if you use your hand or tongue to just caress this area, it’s not going to stimulate the man very much. I’m surprised that many women think that sucking back and forth on the shaft will make a man ejaculate, this is not the case, it’s really just because the woman’s throat is deep in the glans joking around with the glans, which is the real reason why men ejaculate.
Underneath the penis are the testicles (balls, balls, whatever you want to call them, just don’t overlook their importance). The testicles are particularly sensitive to pain and are generally thought to play a secondary role in the process of sexual stimulation. Wrong! In fact, if you treat them right, they can also bring your partner to the height of pleasure. For example, take them in your mouth, one at a time or even both at the same time.
So pay attention to his penis, study it carefully, get a complete grasp of the most sensitive zones on his body and get ready to put your sexual knowledge to work on him. Put your tongue, your lips to good use as you bend over his sex.
pleasure-section
Technique is important when it comes to sucking your lover’s penis to make him experience pleasure to the fullest. With his hard shaft pointing proudly toward the ceiling, cup his balls in one hand while gently, softly and carefully licking the underside of his erect penis with your tongue and only your tongue. When your tongue reaches his soft groove area, you will find that it gives him extreme pleasure. Unless your partner is made of stone, you will definitely find that area to be the most pleasurable to him as your tongue travels all the way around. Once you have found the point that excites him the most, concentrate your efforts there.
For most men, the most sensitive area is the outermost edge of the glans where the foreskin was attached before circumcision. By licking and flicking this area with your wet tongue, you can make him squirt. If you are not experienced enough and want to make him feel good in a short period of time, I suggest that you use this method to make him ejaculate in order to get a first-hand account of the nature of his orgasm and pleasure.
culmination
When a man reaches orgasm you must pay attention to some subtle changes in his penis, these changes are the same every time he reaches orgasm, allowing you to pay attention in advance to prepare for his ejaculation. At this point the man’s glans will appear slightly larger than it normally does when he is erect, and he will move his hips so that his penis is as far forward as possible when he ejaculates. Generally before ejaculation, there will be one or two drops of clear liquid from the crack in his glans, when you see these and feel the glans crack open, you should understand the truth to be revealed to the world. Let you add full power, enjoy launch it!
finesse
The best position is kneeling between your partner’s legs and starting at the base of his penis, not from the side or top. Of course I will mention various positions later, so try more with your partner to see which works best.
tongue-twister
This is not a place for you to mimic the sounds, but rather to take his iron cock into your mouth, being careful not to push your lips too hard, and let your head do a sort of circling motion. As you circle back and forth, his penis flips from side to side in your mouth, touching different parts of it, keeping your teeth away from it. The position mentioned in the previous paragraph is good enough, but another way to do it is to have your partner lie down flat and you take in the vertical penis straight up and down. Remember to be gentle and purposeful in your rotation, don’t jerk it around. If you’re doing it the right way, doing it this way could mean hours of flawless pleasure. If you still want to make noise, I think a few wet slurping sounds could turn him on.
lollipop
Have your man sit up slightly taller, with you on both knees in front of him, and raise his hard-on to show his balls.
Use your tongue to lick from the base of his balls straight up to the top of the glans. You can use your hands to help a little here. You may want to lick up and down a few times, as if you were licking a lollipop from your childhood.
Sucking (this is one of the basic techniques of a blowjob)
Slowly take in his sex, not too deep, so that your tongue just covers the side of his glans, with your lips around the glans a little outward from the stem, and holding the rest of his stem in your hand. At this point you have a couple options. Try twisting your head from side to side to keep your tongue over the inflated edge of the glans while you rub your hand up and down the shaft.
When he reaches orgasm, he may want to maximize your mouth to contain his genitals, if you do that you will miss the wonderful moment. Instead, you can lick the very edge of his glans, which can stimulate his pleasure to a greater extent and enhance his orgasmic energy. As you gain experience, you will know exactly when he is going to ejaculate and your movements will be more on point.
To enhance his orgasm you can hold down the very root of the penis with your thumb to block the semen advance channel preventing ejaculation. The semen will not slip out despite your partner having a convulsive state and making a conditioned reflex to ejaculate.
Keep trying to suck on his glans and delay his ejaculation. When you finally allow it to ejaculate, realize how long and intense it is. Even though you only delayed it for a short while, the intensity of his ejaculation was enough to surprise you.
testicular
These are two things that will enhance your partner’s sensations. Hold his penis by the head and flick your tongue over the balls, gradually moistening them completely with your saliva. Then take them all into your mouth and give them a good bath. Remember to smooth out his pubic hair now so that you don’t accidentally bring it in and hurt your lover. Try pressing on his perineum, which is halfway between his testicles and anus, and some men enjoy a prostate massage when receiving a blowjob. This is where fingers come into play (see “Backyard Blossoms” later).
Simple Blowjob
Take your moist lips around his glans and slowly rotate them around the back part of the glans (the soft groove mentioned earlier). This doesn’t require a lot of sexual skill, but it’s effective because this is the most sensitive area of his sex organ. You don’t need to be an expert blowjobber, but you do need to find his most sensitive area. Continuous sucking here will trigger a quick but powerful ejaculation, and remember not to bob your head up and down to achieve this result.
69 not to turn around.
A 69 isn’t always the best way to get your lover’s oral pleasure. If you’re not careful, one of you will slow down your beat in order to enjoy the pleasure of the other’s mouth and tongue. But I believe that 69 style is the ultimate act for generating pleasure. As long as the two of you are able to give it correctly, selflessly, and in time to match the rhythm of each other’s lust, 69 style will be unsurpassed.
deep throat
When you first start performing oral sex on a man the first reaction is most likely to want to vomit. A lot of men are always trying to get as much of their prick down our throats as possible, especially when they’re cumming. The biggest obstacle to swallowing his penis whole at this point is that the depths of a man’s throat are a nearly 90-degree curve, so the first thing to do is to try to get his penis through that barrier.
In order to achieve this effect, you first have to find a position where your mouth and throat are almost in a straight line. The best way to do this is to lie on your back with your limbs relaxed and your head near the edge of the bed so that you can lean back as far as possible.
This position puts your mouth in an almost straight line with your throat, your partner can thrust his sex to the deepest part of your throat, and his pubic hair is able to caress your lips.
When the penis reaches the deepest part of your throat, you will naturally have a gagging reaction. But by relaxing your throat as much as possible you are able to slowly get over the habit, and you should always remain relaxed throughout the process. As he reaches the deepest part of your throat you should adjust slightly to find the most comfortable position. At this point, given your position, you won’t be able to make any movements with your head to stimulate him, you’ll just need to hold on to his throbbing cock. Of course if you can think of licking his soft groove area, then don’t hesitate to act quickly.
If you trust your partner completely, then there is no need for you to make any movements at this point, just try your best to relax. He is in complete control and manipulates the whole process. At this point he will be moving in and out as if he were having sex. He should move gently and slowly, especially if you are trying this for the first time. The only thing he should keep in mind is that he can only move in one direction from start to finish. There is no doubt that he cannot try any other angle.
ejaculate
You’ve got to be careful! You can’t let him get carried away when he wants to ejaculate. When he shoves the entirety of his sex organ into your mouth this is something you have to be absolutely careful that he doesn’t ejaculate in your mouth!
Because of your position on the bed, you don’t even have the chance to “swallow” his semen. This is not only because his condom could end up in your abdomen, but also because his penis is in a position that could cause you to vomit. Even without a rubber condom, his semen could shoot right into your abdominal cavity. If you and your partner understand this and are aware of it, then I’m sure there is no danger or discomfort for either of you.
“The technique of “deep-throating” is not something that every woman tries, but that doesn’t mean you’re not a good blowjobber. Remember to relax as your partner thrusts his penis deep into your mouth. Being able to hold out long enough for him to ejaculate doesn’t happen overnight. You may eventually be able to accept him fully penetrating your mouth, but you may not be able to keep it there until he ejaculates.
Hopefully your partner will understand that this is not a rejection of him or his efforts, and of course I truly hope that you don’t let the fact that you’re reading this discourage you from thinking that you’ll never master this technique. Keep practicing and each time you can get him to go in deeper and stay longer. ^_^
butterfly vibration
The best position for this aesthetically pleasing oral sex maneuver is lying prone on top of him, but of course if he is standing you may wish to kneel in front of him as well. Constrict your mouth to create a vacuum, creating suction on his sex organ, enough suction to slowly introduce his sex organ into your mouth, your lips tightly around his swollen glans and stem, gently teasing the tip of his glans with the tip of your tongue. Your lips start doing an up and down bob at the same time. After a few minutes, switch to vacuum sucking and repeat the action.
8-letter dance
Your lips tighten around his stem and slowly move to the base of the penis, at least as much as possible. Use your tongue to slowly write eight words on it, words that are about three to four inches long, keeping your lips tight at all times, and do this over and over again until you get tired and switch to a vacuum sucking motion.
Take in the deepest part of the penis and wrap your lips tightly around the stem. Then open your mouth and inhale as much air as you can while letting your mouth slowly move near the glans. Your lungs should be full of air at this point. Continue to open your mouth and slowly exhale air while slowly bringing your mouth to the base of the penis. This maneuver cools the penis as you inhale and the heat flow excites it again as you exhale. Repeat the action and then you can return to the vacuum sucking action. If you feel he is about to cum, stop the action and let him clear his head for a few minutes.
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