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For me, being able to probe my fingers into my favorite person’s body is probably one of the most intimate ways to express intimacy. Quite a few of my female companions have told me that this method has a strong stimulation of the so-called G-spot. For a long time some of my friends have always proposed to put the experience of G-spot fun into writing, and finally the piece you see now is the result of a joint effort between me and a few friends.
Before I begin the main text, I would like to point out an important element in a successful sexual encounter: good communication. Your partner knows when she feels most comfortable, so encourage her not to be shy, not to be merely passive, but to tell you how she feels, and you should listen carefully to everything she says. Because it goes without saying that every woman is sexually unique, and it’s only by paying attention that you’ll be able to know where the source of pleasure is for each of the different women.
Step 1: Prepare your hands
If you insist on having long nails to look good, then you should wrap them in cotton balls or thin rubber covers before proceeding, otherwise cut them short and smooth them. Even if you do cut them short, it’s a good idea to wear a rubber boot so that your hands are more comfortable and you don’t feel too nervous. See the section on “Safe sex choices” for more information.
For many women, this type of vaginal penetration creates intense mental and physical tension, and most couples don’t go for it for a short time after removing their clothes. Assuming that sexual intercourse is a sumptuous meeting, the article you’re reading today is talking about the main meal. So don’t forget the dessert before you savor it: the warm-up – kissing, caressing and flirting with each other to know that both partners can’t stand it (there are plenty of examples of G-spot activity that works wonders after a period of cunnilingus). When you’re both ready, grease your fingers with a water-based lubricant and slowly (flirtatiously?) slide two fingers into your girl’s mouth. insert two fingers into your partner’s vagina.
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Different couples do this in different ways.
You should push your finger as deep into the vagina as possible (provided it feels right to the woman) and make circles along the vaginal walls, rotating on the axis of your finger, not just your fingertip. If you apply an even, coordinated force to the whole finger, the sensation will be indescribable (of course, you can also apply a little more force when you reach the uppermost part of the vaginal wall near the stomach, as long as you don’t disrupt the rhythm of the whole circling action). Okay, stop the rotation and put your fingers against the vaginal wall behind the pubic bone and gradually apply pressure upwards. This is the most direct G-spot stimulation, and it’s even better if your fingers can do some subtle jiggling, so we recommend slowly making small circular motions, or bobbing up and down, applying a little pressure as you go up.
Some couples find it particularly erotic and pleasurable to use their hands to mimic the back-and-forth motion of the penis (with the added bonus of applying some upward force on the way back). If you can stroke her clitoris with the thumb of your other hand while rubbing her G-spot with your finger or hand and thrusting back and forth, she’ll appreciate it.
There are many things you can do with your hand at this time, such as holding her body or caressing her all over. Depending on how comfortable you both are, you can also try: kissing her while holding her hair firmly in place; holding her hand down and pressing it against her head; squeezing her nipples; and stroking or thrusting her anus (this works when your partner is lying on her side and your other hand is fully lubricated). You can also lie or crouch so that your head is close enough to say something sensational that your partner will love to hear. Passionate kissing is always welcome, licking or sucking her nipples while rubbing your partner’s lower body, and of course changing your mouth teasing to her clitoris.
You and your female partner will have more fun with vaginal friction and G-spot exploration if you are able to please each other, and this applies to both same-sex and heterosexual couples. Of course you should vary the positions for best results.
multiple orgasms
Many women claim that it is easier to have multiple G-spot orgasms than multiple clitoral orgasms. As you play, if an orgasm starts to come, say something encouraging and increase the intensity of your movements a little. Don’t stop as long as it feels good. There is a “pyramid effect” in multiple G-spot orgasms, which means that each orgasm will make the next one feel better, and even make some other sexual behaviors better. Of course, as I mentioned earlier, this varies from person to person, and the most important thing is to emphasize quality over quantity.
In addition, in general, multiple orgasms should not be accompanied by too much self-satisfied pride. Many sexologists believe that it is harmful to think of something pleasurable as a way to achieve fulfillment.
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throw a punch
Quite a few ladies like their lover to probe almost his entire hand into her pussy, however you can only do this if she wants it and to the extent that she is comfortable with it. If both of you are willing to do this, then I suggest that it is best to read a book that explains it first. If not you can look carefully below: your woman or lying on her back or on all fours on the bed, and your first flat, fingers as close as possible, so that your hand looks like a duck’s beak, and then slowly do a massage into her vagina.
Once the third knuckle of your palm is also in, the fingers slowly retract to form a fist. The whole process will take a lot of time and progress slowly, but many men and women who have had their fists in the cunt and even in the anus claim that it often takes them into a state of unparalleled ecstasy. (Details can be found in certain reference books.) Meditation on the Female Body Structure
Ejaculation and the G-spot
According to the book “The New Good Vibrations Guide to Sex”, the G-spot is tectonically located just below the spongy body of the urethra, which explains its position in the so-called “female ejaculation” in a way, and also makes it clear why some women feel like urinating after the G-spot has been stimulated, when they don’t want to urinate (some studies have shown that female ejaculation is completely different from urination). They don’t want to urinate at all (some studies have shown that female ejaculation and urination are two completely different things). It is also important to note that not all women experience sperm after G-spot stimulation, and even for those who do experience G-spot orgasms, it is not very common.
Men have a G-spot too.
Some of the above G-spot stimulation tips work equally well for a man’s backdoor. There is something called the prostate gland in men that can trigger or enhance orgasms when it is stimulated. To stimulate the prostate, you can reach into the anus with one or two fingers, lean in a few centimeters toward the penis, and press firmly while your other hand can massage the penis. The prostate is shaped like a dome, and you may want to refer to specialized books for specific details.
Safe Sex Options
It goes without saying that the sexual behaviors covered in this article are less likely to cause ejaculation or spread STDs than other sexual behaviors such as unprotected vaginal or anal sex. If you and your partner are reluctant to wear gloves and at least one of you is ejaculate-prone, having unhealed scars during menstruation or on your hands will pose a risk, which can be minimized by washing your hands carefully with hot water and antibacterial soap. To be safe, if you are having sex with someone you don’t know very well, it is advisable to wear rubber gloves. These gloves are available at many drugstores, and unless you are allergic to the powder, it usually doesn’t matter if these gloves have talcum powder on them, but it’s important to get gloves that fit your hands just right. Also, don’t forget to put enough water-melt lubricant on the gloves.
The last thing to point out is that sex should be based on pleasure, intimacy and comfort, not technique. If anyone focuses on pure technique, sex tends to lose the spark it should have. So the main idea of this article is to inspire everyone to have fun and be passionate about sex and enjoy your life to the fullest!
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