Before I got married, I believed in love over sex; however, after I got married, I favored both love and sex. Love is spiritual, but sex can be flavored.
It’s been wonderful to experience another kind of tenderness from him over the past two months or so of marriage. Although the wedding night was laughable because the wedding day was so tiring, I guess, with lots of relatives and friends to greet, and after it was over, the two of us talked in our room as usual, but we both anticipated what was going to happen later.
After I showered and changed into my pajamas, I don’t know if it was psychological, but the way he touched me and kissed me didn’t feel quite the same as usual, but it was all just as tense.
The next morning, found that when I woke up is by their beloved man embracing, really is a very happy thing, last night’s pain, as if it is nothing. When he woke up, the first thing he said to me was: “You looked so pathetic yesterday, it really hurts, right?”
Deliberately pampering him, he felt so much like a little girl all of a sudden.
Every night, he would try to come back on time (if there is no traffic jam), and then we would make dinner together, talk about the day at the office together, clean up our sweet little nest together, and take a shower together. He always brushes my back very gently, and I love to wash his hair, use a bunch of foam to do styling, or use the bubbles of shower gel to cover up the key parts (of course, to help each other cover up), and then rinse each other off, talk about love and make love and do things in the bathroom, and wash it until my skin is almost wrinkled off.
Finally, he would carry me to the bed, in bed to read some books or documents, and I, deliberately in the side of the tease him, play with his body, sometimes really have to read the document first, will warn me: “Wait a minute you will know my awesome Oh!” I do not care about him, continue to tickle him, so he decided to move out of a study to, and then first shut me in the room, so as not to make noise to him.
However, he was only paying lip service to the idea, so I guess he was just trying to scare me!
He is a man who loves children and longs to have his own baby. However, I don’t want to get pregnant and have a baby before our careers are stabilized, and he is not sure if he will be transferred to a branch office. I don’t want to be pregnant without my husband, and he can’t be assured of my dependence on his wife, and I’m afraid of pain.
I, who was so scared of marriage before, finally felt so good about getting married because he is my husband. In fact, after marriage, we are not without arguments, for the baby thing, he likes very much like children, and I, some fear of children, I hate the children’s crying, I told him, I do not want to have a baby, he thought that I was childish, said the end of the day, that day, seriously in the discussion, he realized that the two do not share the same concepts.
I said I was afraid of the pain and the baby, but he argued that the little baby was our baby, and that while the purpose of marriage is not necessarily to have children, a family with a baby is bound to be happier and more fulfilling (something I don’t entirely agree with).
At the end of the speech, he was a little angry and said: “You do not know how to care for children, how can you be a good wife!” I heard so sad, so sad, could not help but cry, he still hugged me, kissed my ears and face, explained to me, he is not no love for me, just, the concept of some of the differences should be communicated.
In fact, do not want to be a mother there is another reason, I do not want to be a busy all day housework, children’s yellow face, I want to be my husband’s eternal “little girl. Before going to bed, he always gently said to me: “Baby wife good night!” We used to sleep naked, naked, feel each other’s body temperature. Sometimes, I am asleep, his hands and mouth will not be too peaceful, but taking into account the next day still have to go to work, or not too much, huh!
I have a bad habit of staying in bed, and in the morning, he’s going to start doing everything he can to get me out of bed. Once, I was so sleepy that he almost carried me to the door, so I had to get up reluctantly. I really look forward to the weekly holidays when I can sleep well, and do not have to think about whether to go to work or not, I can enjoy the life of two people.
Getting married is truly a blessing.
Recently, when I go home and pass by the department store, my husband often asks me if I want to go in and take a stroll, of course I do, but I like the cosmetics counter on the first floor, and he always pulls me to the baby products and maternity clothes department to see, and then also keep filling me with magic soup, saying: “Honey, this one is very suitable for you, it is very pretty, oh, when you have a baby, I’ll buy it for you, okay? ” This kid actually came up with this kind of trick.
Every time we made love, he kept whispering in my ear that when I got pregnant, he would put a lot of Kitties in the room, and there would be Kitty beds, quilts, pillows, Kitty slippers, Kitty windows… all of them were cats, and I was so impressed that I sometimes imagined it, almost forgetting that he was abducting me again.
Or you can say to me when I’m already excited, “Honey, I really want a baby!” God, I can’t say no with a straight face in that scenario! It’s so annoying, every time. Before, I would try to calm him down and let him continue to move; but now the slowing down tactic doesn’t seem to have much effect, if I say no, he won’t move, so damn it!
But when I told him yesterday about taking the morning after pill, he was so scared that he kept telling me he was sorry and asked me straight out if I was unwell and if I should see a doctor. In fact, I am also very worried, it’s all our fault for being so uneducated and not daring to ask more questions, we are not stressing about it until now when something may have gone wrong.
He is not in favor of me taking birth control pills, I heard that it will lead to infertility, and there will be some after-effects, he all said that he wore a condom on it, this time taking the morning-after pill, it is my own insistence. Last night, he apologized to me in a way that made me look so sad, in fact, he is not wrong, I know he loves me very much, from every time he has sex are very gentle to feel it. Sometimes when I still feel a little pain after sex, he will keep stroking my back with his big hand until I fall asleep, and sometimes he will keep saying, “Wife, I really love you so much…”, which is so silly.
Even though sometimes he may not be able to get enough, when he sees me like this, he still puts up with it, but sometimes he will jokingly say, “Tomorrow, you have to ask for it all back!”
Sometimes, I would think, like him such a good man, married a not very wise me, will not be too much for him? Every time I “bite” him, I often hurt him, although he said it’s okay, more practice will be able to, but often the neck is sore, I will not help him to eat the skin.
Since we got married, I do the number of breakfast seems to be less than ten times it, because I will sleep, he put everything ready before waking me up. Today is more exaggerated, the morning two people can not help but again, I simply do not go to work, no strength, direct leave in the home love. He thinks, according to the current life, with his salary can also be a stable life, no big expense, I can also sleep well, just I’m afraid of boredom.
Alone at home is really quite boring, work and colleagues can deal with, occasionally busy, in fact, work is not very stressful. Moreover, after taking the morning-after pill twice, he kept asking me not to go to work at all, and to recuperate at home first. I didn’t feel any discomfort, only the first few days I kept wanting to vomit, so I really have to think about it. If I don’t go to work, maybe I can follow him to Tainan, so I’m so hesitant!
I don’t know if you have any funny conversations with your husband, but sometimes, I think my husband and I have some pretty A-list conversations, but it’s fun, it’s one of the joys of life! For example, I often stay in bed in the morning, and every day I have to listen to him call me, “Honey, are you awake yet?” I deliberately said not yet, and then he said: “But even my brother woke up, and very happy oh!” Then he pulled my hand to his side, but also intentionally move twice.
“Oh great wow!” I still had no intention of getting up.
“He said he wanted to play tug of war with you yeah!” And then he put my glove there again and actually played tug of war. I couldn’t help but laugh, so I woke up laughing and didn’t sleep much, but that didn’t mean I could go to work, and sometimes I would overdo it, and then…
Last night after dinner, my husband took me to buy a big Kitty, he said, when the time comes, he must first go to Tainan, I will go over after everything is taken care of, at least a week or two, to buy a big doll, kind of make it up to me. When he was away, he could cuddle her to sleep, he couldn’t go over there with her, and of course his mood was super low, and he also decided not to go to work. He thinks it’s better for me to stay home anyway, even if I’m not pregnant, just recuperate, so it seems I can’t escape being a housewife. However, I said that if I don’t work, I would like to join some community activities, such as clubs, learn flower arranging, cooking, and be a wise wife (this is the ideal state).
Think of a commercial on TV where the husband comes home from work and the wife runs down the stairs and says, “Wow help miles of hot water.” Oh, maybe that’s what I’m going to be like from now on, but my husband is much better looking than the guy in the commercial. ∶P
There is now a box of lollipops at home, my genius husband bought, yesterday, specially asked him to show eating lollipops for me to see, he is very attentive to teach Oh (for their own welfare), causing me to laugh all the time. Then I said, “Let me show you.” I was performing the big teeth stunt, the candy bites the broken, he immediately shouted: “not like this! My brother is very fragile. If you do that, he’ll die from your bite!” Haha, I picked up a second candy, crunched it, and spat it into his mouth, saying, “That’s the only way I’ll do it.” He looked so helpless… with a wife like me, he could only resign himself to his fate. ∶I’m sorry.
In the morning, my husband and I got up early and went for a walk in the neighborhood park, hand in hand, which I haven’t felt like this for a long, long time. My “best friend” brought a bunch of bad friends with him, stomach aches, colds, and eye infections, which caused me to lose my strength and had to report to the hospital to see the doctor.
Husband’s big and warm hand pulling my little cold hand, these days I’m very emotional, whenever he wants to lean on my ear to say love words, always very unhappy to push him away: “Can’t you see that I’m not feeling well?
You idiot!” He still hugs me and tells me not to be mad, and he says he knows it’s because I’m sick and ill that I’m so bad.
I was so sad when he said something in the morning, indeed, I was angry because he was going to Tainan, and he still knows me best enough to know that I’m taking advantage of the situation again.
What am I afraid of? Distance makes two people’s relationship fade! In the past few years, we have been in a long-distance relationship, afraid of the feeling of loneliness, or rather, the fairy tale ending disappointment, the prince and the princess will end up living happily ever after, but the book forgot to add a: But in real life, work is also one of the center of gravity.
He asked me if I regretted marrying him, and if I had known it would be like this, I would have been a big fool. From the moment I became Mrs. Chen, I knew my happiness would only grow.
Thank you for providing so many ways to cure menstrual pain, I will adjust my daily routine, and learn to eat durum (oh, it stinks!). Also, now there are a lot of chocolate at home (my husband bought); and what will be in the soup, is the mother bought; a packet of a packet, as if directly with hot water can be, anyway, there are a lot of ways Oh, thank you all netizens are so enthusiastic. (∶)
Daylily sick sick for many days, but fortunately daylily’s husband is very considerate, in fact, I like him to stick in my ear and talk, and occasionally bad bite people’s ears, fast asleep, sometimes will be skinny lick my lips, itchy numbness.
Wife said: “Now is the physiological period, can not have sex, yo!” Hubby replied with a bitter face, “Okay, I’ll be patient.” But I keep teasing him, hehehe! In the end, he wrapped himself up like a bear with a quilt and looked at me with innocent eyes and said, “Wife, please forgive me!” Hey, Xuaner with more innocent expression told him: “I do not want to do anything to you ah, do not be afraid, do not be afraid, good girl, to wife show.”
In the end, he had to say, “I’ll get my comeuppance when I’m done with that one”. Hehehe, I don’t know who’s going to die! After playing for a while, he got emotional again. Hey, can’t stand him like this, every time he says: “Xuaner good boy, you listen to me, don’t move around.” Really, listen to him to talk still have to sit down, but I will finally obediently sit down, listen to his nagging, sweet nagging.
In fact, it’s really a blessing to be married to him… ^-^
Do you like with their boyfriend and girlfriend or husband and wife pampering, Xuan’er favorite with her husband pampering, every time to say “grow up Xuan’er”, listen to the heart will be sweet, yo. May be because I am more petite reason, he always carry me in his arms, and I like to put my head on his shoulder, feel all his warmth, when he did not pay attention to the time, in the neck of the planting of a belong to Xuan’er’s mark. Hubby says that daylily is like an animal behavior, “declaring sovereignty”. Yes, I want the world to know: this man is my own!
But Xuan’er has also become more like a woman, married really not the same, former classmates see Xuan’er, will be “shocked” said: “wow, become Mrs. Chen after a different Luo!” Then Xuan’s husband would say: “Of course, it depends on whose wife she is.” He is a man who loves to take credit.
I remembered the reason he kissed me for the first time: “Your lips are very beautiful.” Oh, red face, and a little stuttering, really cute man, from the youthful years to the present mature and stable him, it is difficult to imagine how we have grown to the present between us. The big boy who didn’t quite dare to kiss me before, to the husband who kisses his wife deeply every day now, it’s really messy and fun to think about.
Perhaps in old age we will be touched in a more different way, growing old together, and Xuan’er, who has always loved to look pretty, will begin to think that is a happy thing.
Xuan’s husband is sometimes perverted and often sneaks up on me when people aren’t looking, startling me and then letting out a triumphant laugh.
“Stop your perverted behavior immediately, Chen XX.” Every time I had to warn him, he immediately leaned over and said, “Honey, don’t be like this!” It’s a real laugh.
Yesterday, I was trying out the method on the page (eating fingers), but Xuan’er is a little bit of a germaphobe, so I had to cut my nails short and wash them before I dared to eat them. He doesn’t know what I’m going to do yet, but he’s been cooperating and has been obediently trimming and cleaning them for me, and thinks his wife has become a wiser person.
Then he asked me, “Honey, what are you doing?”
“Hey, hey, hey, I’m a tiger nun, I want to eat delicious fingers.” Xuan’er revealed her hideous face. “Haha, good wow, come on come on!” This man who is not afraid of death.
And then, of course, let him $#∧∧%&@@!
He kept asking me how I came up with this weird trick. Luckily, Ken’s been very busy lately, or he’d have known about it.
There is another happier thing, Xuan’er is going to Tainan with her husband, YA! I met Ling’er and Ying Ying here, they are also married and very happy women yo, and we talked until 4:00am, Xuan’er’s husband had collapsed on the ground. I’m not sure if you’re a good person or a good person!
Yesterday, we talked about a lot of topics, one of the funnier ones was the size of the breasts and the method of giving birth to a boy or a girl. Ling’er is the happiest, she already has a son, and Ying Ying and I are both too thin, so our breasts are not big. So Xuan’er loves to ask her husband: “Hubby, Xuan’er’s breasts are small, what should we do?” Hubby said: “Will it? Let me see.”
And then they took advantage of me to eat my tofu. Damn! But he will be very sweet to say: “no small wow, this size husband like.” Oh, good husband, inside only Ling Er does not have such a trouble, really good, envious.
Seeing Spirit’s labor experience made me so scared that my hands and feet went limp, and my husband even stupidly said that not everyone is in this much pain. Boss, hmmm, it’s not like he’s ever given birth before!
But Ken really love Xuan Er, and in the morning to eat his breakfast, because yesterday there was crying, eyes pink swollen pink ugly said, look in the mirror, can not help but shouted: “Oh my God, this mirror in the ugly woman is who is it?” My husband made me laugh and laugh.
Ling’er has a son and now wants a daughter. Ying Ying and I want a son, and Ying Ying says it’s for thinking about her husband. My motive is the most primitive, because my husband is an only child, and, if the first child is a son, I don’t want to have any more, so why not just give me twins, one pain at a time (now I don’t just need to study the method of giving birth to a boy or a girl, I also need to study the method of giving birth to twins). Hehehe!
Ying Ying and Ling Er, go for it! Let’s continue to be happy and try to have healthy baby(s)!
Now I look at myself in the past (about a few months ago), I really think it’s funny, why would I say that? Because Xuan Er found that the previous serious lack of sexual knowledge, the first time to see their husband’s “brother”, but also shocked, because it looks so ugly oh (do not hit me, I do not know why, anyway, that is not good-looking is. He also because I said this standing there, he said: “I do not know what to say, very ugly?” Oh, I have been fighting with him, said: “That is your own look for so many years, of course, do not feel, with the abalone into the restaurant, long time smell do not know the stink of the reason is the same thing.”
What’s even funnier is that Xuan Er always thought that it was big because it was big every time I saw it. One time suddenly gave me an idea.
“Ah! Hubby, you need to wear thicker pants la.” Xuan’er said nervously.
“Why, what’s wrong?” Ken was startled too.
“Otherwise, your brother would be huge and look obvious!” Xuan’er returned herself as being the attentive wife.
“Oh, come on, can you see it now?”
Xuan’er bent down to see: “Well, it doesn’t seem to be very obvious, it’s so strange!”
“Idiot, that’s only big when you’re excited.” Ken kept laughing at me.
Xuan’er felt her self-esteem deeply wounded, oooh, a bright idea, hehehe, “So this way.” I reached over, haha, unzipped the zipper, pinched, surrendered, this is where Xuan Er’s power lies. So what if you don’t have any common sense, you can still make him beg for mercy…
P.S.: It was so much fun to see my brother slowly getting bigger in my palm, so I invented a new game: make it bigger and then wait for it to get smaller; bigger, smaller, bigger, bigger… hehe! ∶P