The love affair between mother and son is the most complicated. Many mothers have subconsciously “married” their sons, treating their daughters-in-law as vixens who seduce their sons. Lawrence’s book “Sons and Lovers” has become a stunning literary masterpiece, as it explicitly portrays the love affair between mother and son.
The truth is, not many mother-son romances blossom, so if you fall in love with your son, or if he pursues you passionately, you’ll be at a loss. You’ve stepped onto a shortcut, a path of no return less traveled.
One day, you will have to make a choice at the tipping point between mother and son and lover: to accept your son’s love, to cross the threshold with him hand in hand, to give your body to him completely. No one will understand your inner feelings and struggles; your joys and pains can only be buried in your heart. No one can tell you what lies ahead of you, and you can only go on your way alone.
Troubleshooting Sex with Your Son proposes to answer for you a few questions you’ve wondered about but were afraid to ask. First of all, this statement is not to encourage mother and son to do some transgressive behavior, but on once the mother and son to happen unmanageable romance, there is a strong lovemaking to make sex partners, the future of sex life should consider the problem. Whether you have already slept with him, or not really, should let a read.
I. Q. Is it against nature to give one’s body to one’s son to fulfill one another’s needs?
A: The psychologist Fran Yide says that not only is this not against nature, but it is the very call of motherhood.
From the moment you were conceived in October, you created the most intimate physical relationship with your son. The void left in your womb after the birth of your son can only be filled by his return to your arms. After your son croaks, you have given your body to your son as his paradise. It is not only your son’s need for you to nurse him and hold him in your arms, but it is also a mother’s nature to do so. You need your son to suckle on your full breasts, and you long for him to return to your womb. This is the language of your body, the call of motherhood. This Franjdean insight into sexuality is not yet obsolete. Knowing this, you will not think that it is against nature to want intimate physical contact with your son.
Usually, the husband will drive his son out of your bed as soon as possible and monopolize your body, and your son, who is powerless and miserably suppressed, can only endure in silence. But he will not be willing to grow up day by day, the heart is still attached to your body, and constantly show love to you, waiting for the opportunity to reclaim his right to your body, which is also his natural appeal.
If a mother and her son love each other sincerely, there is no need to be afraid of the environment. If the situation is unfavorable, they will go in secret, have a secret meeting to comfort their feelings; if the conditions permit, they should make a decision and go to Wushan together. If you can not break through the customs, it will become a man and a woman, each will be buried in the heart of adoration, let teach day and night, close to the water, nothing, lifelong regrets.
II.Q. My son says that if I love him, I’m not afraid to let him see me naked, but why am I always ashamed?
A: He can only undress you, it’s the chains of your spirit that you have to break free of before you can fish and water with your son.
There is an internal struggle between letting your son undo the first button on your chest, and letting him take off your bra and panties until your whole body is naked for him, whether it’s exposing a part of your body or your whole body is naked. The thing you are trying to undo is not the clothes on your back, but your sexual repression in all its forms and shapes. You have to open your heart completely to your beloved son, and give yourself to him without reservation, so that you will not feel ashamed to be naked with him.
You have to overcome your dignity, rank and status, and not be afraid that he will abandon you or despise you, in order for mother and son to be in harmony. When you are able to let go and accept your son as your lover, and live with him as a couple, crossing the boundary between mother and son hand in hand, only then will you be able to achieve your happiness.
However, the guilt of being socially unacceptable and the nervousness of being exposed to others will not go away just because you have adopted an open mind about sex. Incestuous love is like a shocking, roller-coaster ride of ups and downs that inspire and ignite your love.
You cannot resist the temptation of forbidden love and will even embrace it. With the drive of desire and the urge to love together to reach the extreme point of sexual excitement, you will have such as floating in the clouds of relief, easy pleasure, forget who they are, but also forget is who he is. Two people become one, and no longer have the distinction of seniority and inferiority. This is the so-called mutual forgetfulness.
Q: If my son and I go on like this, it’s only a matter of time before he asks me to give him my body, but I’m avoiding him for fear that I might get pregnant, is there anything else I can do?
A: Avoiding him is certainly not the way to go, you need birth control for that. You need to seriously tell him that he needs to wear a condom if he wants to have sex with his mom.
Sex with your son can lead to pregnancy, and if you don’t make arrangements, you can “kill someone” at any time, and you know it without being told, so you’re afraid to get close to him. Mothers don’t trust their sons to use contraceptives because they need you to clean up after them, so they can’t be that thoughtful. Therefore, it is important for a mom to buy some condoms and keep them at the bedside or in her handbag, just in case. You have to remind your son that the condoms are somewhere and you can use them if you need them. In this way, when you are in the heat of the moment, you can have sex without fear.
At the beginning of sex with him, it is best to put on a condom for your son, so that he will not be too busy to break the thin rubber membrane. Set before, you can kiss his penis, pinch, test it hard enough, but do not rub vigorously, he will not be able to stand and premature ejaculation, that will hit his self-confidence. After putting on the condom, teach him to use your love juice, or other lubricants, coated on the condom before entering your vagina. During insertion, he may need you to lead the way yourself. Once you’re in position, signal him to start pumping until he ejaculates. Don’t be flippant with the pulling out process either, in case the semen leaks inside you and it’s all for naught.
You have to take advantage of this time, pretend to be shy, pillow son’s shoulder, say some pillow talk. Such as saying he did a good job, get you how good, used condoms do not throw everywhere, condoms run out to him to replenish, etc., do not preach the tone. And do mother must be consistent with words and deeds, in case the condom really used up, he forgot to buy, do not be soft or afraid of their own desire to rush to buy for him, you have to resolutely refuse to have sex with him, so that, in order to help him develop good lovemaking habits and sense of responsibility as a human being.
Q: Although we are in love, our ages don’t match, will he dislike me for being old?
A: Do not be inferior because of the age difference, the charm of a woman’s maturity is your capital.
This is the problem of forgetfulness, so you are not alone, older wives and young couples have the same problem and many have a great sex life. Imagine what would make your son go over the top and pursue you? He can’t take the hard way over the easy way, he won your heart, he didn’t look complacent and take it as a great achievement. You can’t be unaware of what attracts him to you the most. You have a matured femininity, and he likes women who are older than him.
You don’t have to be ashamed of yourself, older women have the right to pursue their own happiness too.
You are older than him and have more experience in life and sex than he does, which is why he is attracted to you. Don’t pretend to be young and old and fight with the little girls, you will make him hate you. Have confidence in yourself, use your own strengths, to show your son, to hook his soul. If your son to get on those girls, you do not have to think that the enemy and nervous, you have to let your son in the outside world to see, he will understand that the wildflowers are not as fragrant as the family flowers. Those girls, although the cloud of youth invincible, in fact, the bed work is young and tender, and you can’t hope to catch up with the dust.
If your son has an appointment and returns home at night, don’t think that the world is ending and be like a complaining woman who stays alone in an empty apartment. You can put on a little powder, dress a little sexier than usual can be, but do not have to wear he bought you those low taste of transparent bra, small panties. When he comes back, when you see him hanging his head, don’t ask questions, just be pleasant to him. However, to his infinite tenderness, but also intentionally or unintentionally show some slight jealousy, that you are also tight, compared to his little girl will be compared. He will also naturally how those little girls do not understand people, do not know the art of lovemaking and other encounters and dish out. The first thing you need to do is to get a good deal of money. All you need to do is to show half of the pearl chest, warmly sent kisses, into his arms, he will know that the world is only good mother.
If you let go of the burden of “age”, you will find that, as your love for mother and child progresses, your harmonious physical relationship satisfies your sexual desire, promotes blood circulation in your body and stimulates the secretion of female hormones, your body will become more and more beautiful, and your skin will be soft and smooth, which will make you radiant and look younger.
From the moment your son expresses his “sexual interest” in you, you should regain your confidence and share your love with him without fear.
Fifth, Q: my son thinks he is a master of flirting, in fact, not yet home, can not scratch my itch, such as I take the initiative, will not damage his self-esteem?
A: If you don’t teach him the art of sex, who will you get to teach him?
You are different from your son’s other lovers and apart from the fact that you are his mother, you are more than anything else going to be his most memorable sexual partner. You need to know that your son’s requirements are actually very simple, no matter who he has sex with, no matter how poorly he uses his sexual skills, he reaches his climax if he can ejaculate. Your requirements are much higher than his and are more about skillful play. He won’t know that until you tell him.
Therefore, you have to let him identify you as his sexual partner, and at the beginning of lovemaking, you have to leave your memory on him. Your son may not even be able to figure out where to enter your body initially. You must rely on your richer sexual experience to teach him some positions and lovemaking skills, so that he and you can repeatedly practice and hone his sexual skills.
You can also use your imagination to add to the fun in bed and make him want to die. For example, say some of his favorite words of love, he likes to hear you call the bed called as much as possible, he even want you to play the role he wants you to do. If he likes to use some aids, you can let him if you don’t find them offensive. You also need to let him know where your body is sensitive area, touch up what you will react. In short, let him take the best memories and associate them with you. In the future, when he has sex with other women, he will think of you and hope that they can serve him as you do. Of course, no matter who, can not replace your position in his heart.
On the other hand, he will also leave his memories in your body, good memories of course. The passion of your first trysts, the pleasures of the bed, will also be a memory of your flesh that cannot be erased. However, you need to make your rights clear that there are certain things that you will not do. The measure of openness to sexual behavior varies from person to person. Some mothers don’t hate being their son’s sex slave, some find anal sex too embarrassing, and some think that anything that can be done between a man and a woman can also be tried with their son. There is no standard, and it depends on the agreement between mother and son.
Six, Q: sex with my son, the stronger the pleasure the more guilty I feel, so I don’t mind if I don’t have an orgasm, does it have an effect on our sex life?
A: And what are you having sex for? Besides, if you want him to become a real man, you have to let him take you to orgasm.
Although some mothers have become their sons’ sexual partners, they still cannot let go of their psychological shackles. With the heart of a loving mother, she is willing to let her son take pleasure in her, but she dares not enjoy the pleasure of sex and does not allow herself to reach orgasm, thinking that this kind of submissiveness is great. This is a big mistake!
Though your son penetrated your body with his penis and ejaculated to orgasm, he is still unsatisfied.
As a man, he has to be able to make his woman just as happy, just as orgasmic, to feel like a real man. Do you want your son to be a real man? If so, let him bring you to orgasm.
You reach orgasm, he is aware of it, your vagina will be filled with blood, it will be as hot as a furnace; the vaginal muscles will contract and spasm, wrapping his penis tightly; your look of emptiness and involuntary moaning can not be hidden from your son.
When your son discovers that he can take his mother to this level, he too will reach his orgasm. But you are a woman, you are happier than him, you can have more than one orgasm. You have to tell him, don’t stop, don’t stop.
Or instruct him on how to push in and how deep and shallow to go. This is something you must be aware of when you haven’t slipped in your orgasm and are about to climb to another one.
Let your son take you to orgasm after orgasm and turn him into a real man. He will also use this to be sure that mom has committed herself to him and become his woman.
VII. Q. My son often asks me to marry him. Is this impossible and is he joking or serious?
A: Your son is serious because he cares more about the name than you do.
Your son will look for opportunities to “marry” you, either implicitly or explicitly. Don’t be afraid and don’t be shy. It is a “normal” reaction for him to ask you to marry him because he needs you to officially recognize his “identity”. He wants to replace dad and become your “man”.
The above situations arise from single-parent families or so-called failing families.
You can fulfill his requests with concrete actions. You can ask him to move into your bedroom. Although, sleeping in a separate room from him will keep you fresh and mysterious, he wants to share your bed and live as a married couple. You have little hope for a respectful, gentlemanly relationship. But your son envisions you holding hands with him and raising your eyebrows. You are more practical than he is, and “de facto husband and wife” is more important than any name. But he is pursuing an ideal, he “wants to give you a name”, so that you can live happily ever after. In fact, he wants to recognize his own “achievement”. What Dad couldn’t do, he did.
Some sons, hear his mother called him a “husband” on the dizzy its big wave, in addition to the bed, may be in other suitable occasions, intentionally or unintentionally called him a husband, there will be an unexpected effect. Some sons want and you “travel marriage”, or honeymoon, things are harmless. If he wants to emigrate to a foreign country with you, and common effect in the fly, double dwelling, the environment permits, appropriate from the respect.
VIII.Q. What are the impediments to my son’s coming to me and wanting to have a love crystallized product?
A: Have faith in your son’s vision of courtship.
Another thing that will disturb you is the fact that your son actually wants you to be the mother of his child. Some mothers, whose nipples are sucked night after night by their sons, would have long ago inspired you to become a mother again.
But all male animals are looking for the most suitable object to mate with him in order to pass on their offspring. Since he has his eye on you, you have to trust his vision. In fact, since the young, you instill some of the conditions of mate selection to him. He chose you as the object of mating, proving that he has vision and taste, he wants to keep all the advantages of himself and you, which is his male mission.
Another thing is that he will settle down when you have the fruits of your love and feel at home. He crouched in your arms, listening to the sound of his child’s heartbeat, his wildness will be tamed, no longer need to “hunt”, he will be grateful to you for him to do so much.
You hold a big belly, which is carrying your beloved son’s blood, son support around, everywhere care, you will feel incomparable pride. What mother in the world can be as great and happy as you? The heavens and the earth are endless, and your son has returned to your womb and is going to give birth to children in you. It must be the catalyst of love that a woman of your age can return to the desire to bear children. A woman who loves and is loved is the most beautiful of all, and you will be a beautiful mother full of life.
The above situation, purely fictional, is for reference only and need not be taken seriously.