I am highly educated and am currently studying at a university abroad. Have been married for 6 years and have an excellent relationship! My wife has a job abroad and we have a relatively stable income. I have a strong sex drive and have sex about 5-6 times a week. However, we always have a restless desire: that is, and other young couples to play the wife-swapping game!
The first time I had this thought was when my wife and I were still in a relationship, I remember, we were in the woods in the park at night that time, I was taking her pants down for caressing, and then I inadvertently turned my head and found that not far away someone was peeping! To be honest, it was nighttime and the man was hiding in the bushes, in fact, all he could see was probably my wife’s two snow-white thighs, and he probably couldn’t even see the dark hair in the middle.
I was subconsciously blocking my wife’s body, trying to try to keep the guy from seeing my girlfriend’s private parts. But then I suddenly thought, why bother hiding? He had already seen it anyway, so I might as well let him have a good look! Anyway, that guy doesn’t know us, so it’s just that he won’t cause us any trouble in the future! So, I just blocked it for a bit, and then on the contrary, I turned my body sideways a bit, letting my girlfriend close her eyes (otherwise, she’d freak out!) , showing her private parts to the guy as much as possible.
I had my back to the man, and my girlfriend was completely naked and facing him. I kissed her and caressed her lower body with my hand, and later I asked her to lift up her blouse… The experience was so exciting that when I told my wife about it after we got married, she didn’t believe I was telling the truth for a long time. But when I thought about it, it was quite funny!
We tried it a few times later (letting others peek in), and then, she said it was too dangerous, in case we were raped by hooligans. But we often reminisced about these adventures when we made love, and we had orgasms every time.
I have to admit that because of these adventurous sexual experiences, we have a much closer relationship than the average couple. Sexually, we are also very straightforward in our explorations.
Later, through the computer network, we came into contact with some yellow novels together, the most let us move is some about the exchange of adult novels, the two of us immediately take this as the pursuit of sex another goal. But the people around us, usually joking is okay, but when it comes to this aspect, it seems to be deliberately avoided. Understandably, a man can go outside to play with women, but is absolutely not willing to play with his wife.
We tried a lot of things and nothing worked, and I was getting anxious in that regard. Later, I told my wife that even if she had that kind of thing with a guy first, then we could make further plans. Sometimes I myself feel that it doesn’t really matter if I let someone else play with my wife once, as long as he doesn’t get attached to her and it doesn’t affect the marriage.
My wife disagreed at first, saying that it would be unfair to me. But then, my desire to do so was too strong, so my wife agreed to give it a try. After all, it’s much easier for a woman to seduce a man.
Then, one day, she suddenly came home and discussed with me that a friend of hers from the past wanted to invite her to dinner the next night. She felt with her female intuition that if she went to the date, it would never be just dinner, and asked me if I agreed, and I was so excited.
The next day, before my wife left, she asked me if it was too late for me to regret it, because once I went there, once I slept with that man, I would be a cuckold forever. But I said I didn’t regret it, so she told me that if I didn’t come back at 9 p.m., I might have to come back the next morning.
I still remember that night vividly. My wife had gone out on a date with another man and as soon as she didn’t come back after 9pm it was almost certain that they had had sex, and the wonderful thing was that I was still very excited about what my wife would look like naked in front of another man. I’m afraid the reason I’m not jealous at all is that I’m so sure of her! We love each other so much, and we agree that there should be a separation between love and sex, and that a person can have sex with several people (as long as they are hygienic!), but a person can only love one person at a time. But one can only love one person at a time.
The next morning, my wife came back and immediately jumped into my arms, saying that she thanked me for allowing her to live another one of those life experiences! We talked about the details of her lovemaking with the man, and she told me how he had first approached her, how he had embraced her, and how he had stripped her of her clothes… I laughed and asked her how she had reacted to the first time he had embraced her. She laughed: “Half-heartedly!”
She also told me that the guy was so excited that night. Probably because my wife is young and pretty and only 28 years old. The guy was like 10 years older than her, and probably didn’t think that such a young and pretty young woman would be so easy for him to get his hands on (in fact, he sent her to her door), so he was especially gentle with her.
I was relieved; the original fear of my wife being brutally raped by someone else seemed redundant.
My wife told me that having sex with a lover and having sex with her husband are two completely different feelings. Making love with your husband is socially and ethically sanctioned and often hardly new after a few years; in contrast, making love with your lover is indescribably passionate due to the fear of discovery. And touching each other to be more exciting, much before the man to peel her panties, the bottom of her panties almost about to wet. But fucking with your husband rarely generates such passion.
My wife and I fucked 3 times in a row that day, and by the end of the day I was tired and so was she. It was the first time in her life she had sex 7 times in 24 hours! I remember we were so excited that day, my wife told me she’ll never forget the guy taking her in his arms and touching her, it was so exciting.
Later I asked my wife again, that guy wouldn’t really fall in love with her, would he? This was my biggest worry, I was absolutely sure about my wife, but I couldn’t say the same about the guy. My wife said, don’t worry, when she first chose this person as a possible object, she knew that person has a stable family. It’s okay to play with girls, but he would never dare to do anything out of the ordinary. As for playing the game of wife-swapping, you can take your time later, the key is to take the first step in extramarital sex.
After that he/she basically went on a date once or twice a month, and on each date my wife told the guy I was traveling. Most of the time it was at my house and I went out for an hour or two. The guy was worried about me coming back every time, but he probably never dreamed that I knew the whole thing.
Once, I even went so far as to hide under the bed and heard my wife fucking someone else with my own ears! It was so exciting that I still talk about it a lot when I have sex with my wife.
Usually, my wife calls me back via beeper only after he has left. Because hiding under the bed to eavesdrop is, after all, too risky and will be very embarrassing if discovered.
About two months later, my wife to the man proposed to the idea of wife swapping, but the man was timid, dead afraid to tell his wife, his wife is about 35 years old, is still relatively attractive. We once wanted to use the method of catching adultery to force him to give in, and then my wife advised me that this is, after all, her first lover outside of marriage, she still wants to cherish this relationship.
Then there was no choice but for me to find another female. I have been in a close relationship with another girl, who has also been a wife for several years. When we finally did that, I asked her, “Why me?” She said it was mainly because her married life was too monotonous and she was looking for some excitement. And she was sure of me and knew I wouldn’t mess around.
She also said that we had both become adults and could be a little more indulgent in our sexual organs as long as it didn’t interfere with our marriage and family. She consistently said that I was her first man outside of marriage, and I believed what she said. This is because she has an extremely calm appearance and is not the type of girl to be casual.
I later also brought up the idea of wife swapping, and she thought about it and thought it was interesting, but she just didn’t dare to talk to her husband about it. I also understand that not all couples in the world can reach this level of intimacy that my wife and I have. If she acts rashly, her family may be ruined.
So for a long time, my wife and I maintained a monogamous sex life outside of marriage. Whenever she dated the guy, I dated my lady friend and it was fine.
The man never knew that I knew about his relationship with my wife, but it was my female companion who seemed to have guessed on a hunch that my wife seemed to know about knowing about my extramarital sex life after I suggested wife swapping to her. Because I had once suggested that the 3 of us have sex together. She didn’t agree, “I’d feel uncomfortable getting all naked in front of your wife.” She said.
We stayed in this relationship for over a year, and with me getting a scholarship to a foreign university, our two extramarital lovers parted ways.
I originally thought that in foreign countries, life is much more casual, but I did not expect, foreign Chinese than the domestic is much more old-fashioned, whose wife is whose wife. And foreign relative to domestic, life, work pressure is much larger, mutual wariness is also very big, want to make a few friends is not easy, not to mention that kind of thing. The majority of foreign men to earn money, many wives at home to look after the children, economic independence, and contact opportunities are greatly reduced.
My wife used to sneer at me and say I was trying to abduct good women. She now works as a secretary in a company, but she is adamant that she will not have dinner alone with any of her male colleagues. Foreign countries are not like home, and who knows who might have any disease. As a side note here, both my wife and I have always used condoms in our extramarital sex lives. Also, we don’t deep-feed with our respective lovers, and oral sex is largely protected.
Ladies and Gentlemen, we are really very distressed now, we would like to do some crazy things, such as wife swapping, but we just don’t know how to achieve this goal? Read some novels about swapping on the Internet, it really makes us all hot and bothered. Although there are male prostitutes and hookers and SWINGER CLUB in foreign countries, we always think it’s too dirty, and our wish is to find a couple who are well-educated and basically live a strict life, preferably under 35 years old, to play wife-swapping games.
The relationship is only for the satisfaction of sexual organ pleasure and there is no money or emotional issues involved. If you are interested, please contact us.