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=============== Table of Contents ==============* Preface*
(I) Sexual response is divided into 4 periods (XI) Whether a woman will ejaculate when she orgasms (II) Structure of male orgasm and ejaculation (XII) Why she didn’t orgasm (III) Physiological structure of female orgasm (XIII) Sexual organ reaction during female orgasm (IV) Detailed dissection of labia majora and minora (XIV) Other physiological reactions to orgasm (V) Orgasm comes from the vagina or clitoris (XV) Orgasms and sexual organ arousal (VI) Female Orgasm from the G-spot? (xvi) What can be aroused by caressing (vii) How long does it take for a girl to have an orgasm (xvii) List of women’s sexual sensitivity (viii) Masturbation is more likely to have an orgasm than sex (xviii) Mystery of women’s multiple orgasms (ix) Methods of distinguishing between real and fake orgasms (xix) Pursuit of sexually sensitive inclined girls (x) Women’s orgasms are not instinctive (xx) Pursuit of a common psychological orgasm ────────── ───────────────────────── *Preface*
The orgasmic period is undoubtedly the essence of sex from a subjective point of view.
Orgasm brings extreme pleasure and fulfillment to both men and women, and the general so-called “erotic literature” depicts the interest or the general so-called “marriage guide” and other books suggest the key points, and are not here to make a big fuss.
However, the over-emphasis on the achievement of orgasm seems to create the illusion that “failure to make the other person reach orgasm is failure”, and under this psychological burden, the emphasis is only on sexual intercourse skills, while ignoring the coordination of the two sides of the psychology and the situation.
On the other hand, there are more people who don’t really know what an orgasm is, and have never experienced the physiological reaction of an orgasm, and couples who have been together for 20 or 30 years live happily ever after.
Recognizing your own body, understanding its physiological changes, and carefully experiencing the various phenomena and rhythms of its sexual response will help you to practice and cultivate yourself and increase your self-confidence.
At the same time, understanding the body of the opposite sex and its reaction will help to cooperate and adapt to each other. The beauty of the climax is not to be taken out of context, as it is linked to the coherence of the whole piece, as in the case of a symphony.
=============== This article begins ============== (a) Sexual response is divided into 4 periods
Male ejaculation is a manifestation of orgasm, but it does not necessarily mean orgasm, for example, some middle-aged and elderly people’s ejaculation is not orgasmic. Orgasm is just a reflex action of male and female sex. Generally speaking, the sexual response can be divided into four periods: excitement, plateau, orgasm and recession. Let’s take men as an example: ┌Excitement period ┅┅┅┅┅┅┅┅ (a few minutes to a few hours)
│Seeing sex, physical, mental, and being stimulated to begin with.
│Blood flows to the spongy body, so the penis becomes erect and the testicles rise.
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The ├óΓé¼╦£continuous period’ (or: plateau period, flat period)┅┅┅┅ (30 seconds to 3 minutes)│ and the ├óΓé¼╦£excitement period’ are difficult to distinguish absolutely. Generally speaking, as the sexual stimulation continues, the physiological excitement gradually intensifies, and the urethra secretes urethral bulbous glandular fluid until ejaculation, which is called the “plateau phase” (the continence phase, the plateau phase).
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├óΓé¼┼ôOrgasmic period – boys shoo, shoo, shoo, ejaculate… (3 seconds to 10 seconds) │ The sex organ will produce a rhythmic rhythm and ejaculate.
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(Recovery period) – Weakness, weakness, etc., etc., etc., etc., etc., etc., etc., etc., etc., etc., etc., etc., etc., etc., etc., etc., etc., etc., etc., etc., etc., etc., etc., etc., etc., etc., etc., etc.
Therefore, the male “orgasm” (ejaculation) is only a muscle contraction of 3 to 5 times, taking 3 to 10 seconds!
In fact, the distinction between the four stages of sexual response is made for ease of identification and understanding. It is in fact coherent and interconnected. After all, the duration of a sexual response is short, mostly less than an hour.
Some people may think that sexuality is an innate instinct that comes naturally, so why should it matter how many periods there are? What does it matter how many periods there are? What does it matter if it is called arousal or orgasm? However, for many men and women who are suffering from sexual dysfunction and are not satisfied with their sex life, this knowledge is very important.
Many premature ejaculation (or premature ejaculation) friends, often can not really appreciate the experience of orgasm is what, they only know that ejaculation this thing, and then it is over. The so-called “two or three times on the clean slate” is a self-deprecating joke, if these friends can recognize the various rhythms and variations of the sexual physiological response, so that the self-requirement, carefully to experience the mood, will help self-control and self-confidence. At the same time, knowledge of the sexual response can also know yourself and know your enemy, cooperate with each other, complement each other, in order to achieve a wonderful orgasm.
(ii) Structure of male orgasm and ejaculation
Generally speaking, the state of male arousal is based on continuous stimulation of the penis and glans, which makes the sexual stimulation become more and more intense. At this time, the stimulation signal of the erectile center located in the medulla oblongata will go up through the spinal cord, causing the ejaculatory center in the lumbar medulla to have a reflex action, which results in orgasm (ejaculation).
Therefore, the male orgasm, is to an ejaculation, muscle contraction 3 to 8 times, at most spend a 3 to 10 seconds to declare the end.
If you break down this 3-10 second ejaculation, it can be divided into two stages. In the first stage, the ejaculatory center in the lumbar medulla, which triggers the reflex response, sends a command to the smooth muscles of the walls of the paraphysical organs (paratesticular testicles, seminal vesicles, and prostate gland), which causes the muscles to contract, and then prostate fluid (semen) is ejected to the back of the urethra.
Then, the spermatozoa and testicular secretion from the paratesticles and seminal vesicles are transported to the seminal vasculature, and this is the beginning of the reflex action of ejaculation in vitro. These are the functions of the autonomic nervous system. When it reaches this level, it does not produce any pleasure yet, but it is just in a situation of “once it starts, it is inevitable”.
If the stimulation continues to increase, the second stage will begin. At this point, the muscles at the base of the penis and the muscles that hold the testicles (testicle lifting muscles) will contract simultaneously, and due to the strong propulsive force, semen will be ejected continuously from the urethra of the penis in a flash. When semen is ejaculated, the bladder sphincter is closed because the urethra expands by two to three times its size, making it impossible to urinate.
Usually, the average person will have seven to eight spasmodic contractions at intervals of 0.8 seconds, but with age, this will slowly decrease to three to five times.
If the muscles surrounding the ejaculation and the muscles from the buttocks to the lower thighs contract at the same time, it can bring a man to the peak of sexual pleasure.
In short, male orgasmic ejaculation, including the urethra inside the penis, the whole forward contraction, at first every 0.8 seconds, three or four times and then weakened. At this time, the testes, vas deferens, parotid testes, seminal vesicles, and prostate gland also contract together, and ejaculation occurs.
The ejaculatory action can be divided into two stages. The first stage is the contraction and forward expulsion of the above organs, which allows the semen to enter the urethral area in the prostate region. The sphincter at the bladder outlet locks up to prevent the semen from flowing backwards into the bladder. In the second stage, the semen is expelled forward to the opening of the urethra.
Therefore, ejaculation is a kind of “once initiated, that is unavoidable” involuntary reaction, can not stop.
(iii) Physiological structure of female orgasm
If you’re good at what you do, a girl’s orgasm should feel like “dying”. However, the reaction to orgasm is not always the same for everyone and there is no certain pattern to follow. Some people go into spasms and lose their strength, while others are extremely aroused and their sense of touch is dulled.
The reflex nerves of the female genitals (mainly the clitoris) are the same as those of the male, transporting pleasure to the erectile center of the spinal cord. From here, the nerve signals are sent in two directions, one to the secretory glands of the vagina and vulva, causing secretions to flow out. The other is sent to the ovaries and uterus. From the erectile center, the pleasure signals are then extended through the spinal cord like a male to stimulate the sex centers in the brain to reach the heavenly state of orgasm.
As the male penis thrusts, it constantly rubs against the clitoral tissue, causing blood to flow to the vaginal walls and causing a state of congestion. Therefore, at the peak of orgasm, the surrounding muscles contract and the vagina and uterus go into spasm, just like in men.
At this time the spasmodic contraction of the muscle, but also in the same way, every 0.8 seconds, producing a rhythm of seven to eight times.
In terms of the anatomy of the nervous system and blood flow system of the vagina and the clitoris, the tiny clitoris never exists independently. Nearby, the clitoris is the tip of the clitoris and forms the structure of the clitoral tissue, which then spreads to the left, right and around the vagina, from the entrance to the depth of the vagina is only one-third of the whole around the vagina.
If the whole is distributed, roughly the same as the male penis, it will also cause a response to sexual stimulation.
When the vagina is engorged with blood, the part of the clitoral tissue that is exposed to the outside is only about 30 times the size of the tip of the tiny clitoris.
In addition, the end of the clitoral tissue is distributed in the area of the discoid bone, and the vagina contains the sensation of clitoral tissue.
Since there are no nerves in the vagina itself, to induce orgasm in a woman by concentrating on the tip of the clitoris, which is the most sensitive area, would only stimulate about one thirtieth of the clitoral tissue. If the penis is pumping in the vagina, then this includes contact with the entrance to the vagina and the complex of clitoral tissues of the labia minora.
The signals sent by the clitoral tissue when orgasm is achieved also amplify the pleasure. The best way to lead a woman to orgasm is to stimulate the clitoral tissue with a pumping motion when the vagina is spasming and contracting. Therefore, in order for a woman to have an orgasm, it is not necessary to separate the clitoris from the vagina, but to stimulate both at the same time.
The female orgasm, however, is not as simple as the male’s. The male can achieve the highest level of enjoyment with a single ejaculation. For women, it is necessary to have a wider range of expanded functional responses, not just clitoral or vaginal spasms, in order to achieve true sexual fulfillment.
It is an undeniable fact that women’s orgasms often exceed those of men by several times.
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(v) Orgasms from the vagina or clitoris
There is no denying that the clitoris is the center of female pleasure. But does the female “orgasm” originate in the vagina or in the clitoris? The debate is so far divided that there may never be a correct answer.
Advocates of female orgasm from the vagina that: once the male penis inserted, the two bodies tightly close together, each other both have unlimited pleasure, and then through sexual intercourse, so that the two are really fused together, so that there can be orgasmic enhancement. Although, it is difficult for two people at the same time to reach the realm of orgasm, often the male to seize the “first opportunity”, so that women are not easy to get sexual satisfaction. However, this can be made up for by the traditional lovemaking emphasizing flirting “foreplay” in addition to more emphasis on the “afterplay” stage. That is to say, when the man reaches orgasm, more can be done by hand, mouth or other ways to stimulate the clitoris, etc., to help the female partner to continue and reach orgasm. In other words, it advocates “mutual pleasure” and rejects the idea of clitoral stimulation.
For women who advocate direct clitoral stimulation (e.g. Heidi, a feminist activist), they believe that men should not only focus on the physical union and their own satisfaction. It is more important to give women the stimulation they need to reach orgasm. At the extreme, they believe that when a man’s penis is inserted into a girl’s vagina, the boy himself will certainly get pleasure, but the pleasure enjoyed by the girl may not be the same as that enjoyed by the boy. Therefore, they would rather masturbate themselves to stimulate the clitoris in order to achieve orgasm.
As far as the male anatomy is concerned, of course, every male will support the penis penetration theory without hesitation. If a man’s penis is not inserted into the vagina for intercourse, and he only stimulates the female clitoris, it is also better to masturbate than to masturbate yourself, which is more enjoyable and more comfortable. The development of clitoral orgasms will also lead to dramatic changes in heterosexual sex and role-playing between men and women.
(F) Do female orgasms come from the G-spot?
In women, there are two types of orgasms, clitoral and vaginal. However, in women’s opinion, the clitoral orgasm is more emphasized. At the time of orgasm, the pleasure generated in the depths of the vagina is transmitted like ripples in a pool, and the sensation at this moment is the same as the rippling pleasure transmitted by the clitoris.
However, the G-spot has been the subject of controversy for many years. The so-called G-spot is named after the first letter of the name of Dr. Grefebeluk, who discovered it. According to a German school of sexology, a woman’s orgasm does not lie in the clitoris, but in the G-spot inside the vagina, which is stimulated to produce an orgasm. At this time, women may also have “ejaculation” phenomenon.
How to find the G-spot: insert your finger into the vagina, above the pubic bone, bend your finger towards the outer wall, and then touch between your fingers, about one-third of the length of the front of the female vagina, which is the G-spot.
However, the G-spot has not been found on the anatomy, which means that it has not been confirmed. In fact, in ancient China, there was a similar saying, that is, the so-called “flower heart”. Although the location of the G-spot has not been clearly identified, it may be used to explain the theory of the G-spot. If you want to try, you can take the “rear intercourse method” is easier to reach the location of the G-spot. However, orgasm has more to do with physiology and emotions, so it seems that there is no need to emphasize techniques.
Although the G-spot has caused a lot of controversy, but to this day most people still think: the G-spot is just a fantasy, the so-called G-spot, in fact, is just the sponge tissue of the urethra.
The famous author of The Heidi Report, Cheyenne Heidi, has challenged the G-spot theory. The author of The Heidi Report, Cheyenne Heidi, challenged the G-spot theory, saying: “To fantasize about the G-spot is to shut women out of their 1950’s kitchens”. Is there a connection between the “clitoral orgasm”, which is related to the feminist movement and erotic autonomy, and the “vaginal orgasm”, which is dominated by men? This is really worth exploring and studying in depth.
(vii) How long does it take for a girl to have an orgasm?
A lot of sex studies say: women usually need to go through a period of excitement before they can reach orgasm. That’s why some people say: men are a match and women are a pot of water. How do you boil a pot of water with a match? Just add some alcohol. But don’t add too much, or you’ll burn out the matchstick!
For example, during the 1950s, Dr. Kinsey surveyed the sexual habits of Americans and found that 75% of American men orgasm within two minutes of penetration, with many men orgasming in less than a minute, or even only ten or twenty seconds.
Women are naturally slow to respond, and in the case of many upper-class women, they are conversely accustomed to certain sexual stimuli, and thus require 10 to 15 minutes of stimulation to cause them to climax.
In addition, in 1975, the American women’s magazine “The Redbook Report on Female Sexuality” (The Redbook Report on Female Sexuality) conducted a questionnaire survey on 100,000 people, and according to its report, the number of women who need to spend how much time (penetration) in order to have an orgasm is:: “The number of women who need to spend how much time (penetration) in order to have an orgasm is::”.
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1 minute to 5 minutes 28.0%
6-10 minutes 37.0%
11-15 minutes 20.1%
16 to 20 minutes 9.0%
21 minutes to 25 minutes 2.8%
3.1 per cent over 26 minutes
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Subtotal 100.0%
The results show that 65% of American women want to reach orgasm during sex, at least 6 to 10 minutes of intense “action”. This is, of course, in accordance with the circumstances and emotions at the time, if the woman is difficult to achieve the state of oblivion, then the time required is relatively more.
The problem is that after fifteen to twenty minutes of insertion of the male penis, the woman has not yet reached orgasm, the man can not help but ejaculate, which will make the woman feel why the time is so short, or think that ejaculation ejaculation is too fast.
This is something that most men can’t seem to help but blush at.
The man should make sure that the woman is happy, joyful and satisfied before ejaculating. Then, if you can match the woman’s mood and condition, the duration of sexual intercourse (penetration, duration) will be the most ideal.
Of course, it would be nice to be able to control ejaculation smoothly and automatically adjust the duration to the female form with ease, but this is often not possible. That’s why I’m interested in finding out how long and how often other people have sex.
However, the Heidi Report states that many women “masturbate” themselves with the “clitoris.”
When it comes to “full orgasm”, it only takes a few minutes.
(H) Masturbation is more likely to lead to orgasm than sex
According to a survey conducted by the Japanese magazine MORE.
1. 73.0% of women can reach orgasm through “masturbation” 2. 36.0% of women can reach orgasm through “sex” 3. 61.2% of women have ever pretended to have orgasmic experience, so women are more likely to “orgasm” through “masturbation” than “sex”. “Masturbation” is more likely to “orgasm” than “sex”. The reason is that they are afraid of hurting the man’s self-esteem, or because of their own shyness not dare to tell the other side of their own hopes, so that in vain missed to enjoy the “orgasm”.
Moreover, women often deceive men by pretending to have an “orgasm” during sex… There is also a scene in the movie “When Harry Met Sally” where Harry thinks he can satisfy women, but Sally does not think so, saying that a woman’s orgasmic response can be faked. She says that a woman’s orgasmic response can be faked, and then she begins to perform a vocal “scream”. At this point, the entire dining room for the eyes, a neighboring table of a woman is even more dumbfounded, when the waiter asked the woman to eat something, she said: “I come to a guest this lady just ate something.
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(ix) Methods of distinguishing between real and fake orgasms
So, is there a way to tell if a female grunt is real or not? False? Unfortunately, even the most experienced of men can’t do it. Men must feel very sad when they say that!
That’s not necessary, because there are ways to prove whether a woman is sincere or not, based on purely medical theories.
Female sexual arousal has been described in many books: it rises along a gentle curve and then gradually declines. Especially during the plateau (flat period) and the climax (peak period), she has no way to use her own power to inhibit her own reaction, and the excitement triggered will surely flow all over her body.
The breasts, neck, hips, and back will all feel very tight, meaning that the body becomes very sensitive everywhere, especially the genitals.
The true or false phenomenon is the reaction of the part of the body below the mound of Venus. If there is no wetness, but only a sound, then you can say, “This must be a lie.
Of course, you only need to know this in your head, there is no need to reveal the other side! Because of the bed things, other people can not help! Don’t blow your mind about how much you know about women’s bodies, and then be deceived by the other party without realizing it.
(x) Female orgasms are not instinctive
Some experts, such as Mr. and Mrs. Mast Jonsson, believe that every woman is born with an orgasm.
Ability. However, sexologists such as Helen and Kablan… took a different view and were deeply unimpressed.
For example: Ziff Wangdel, David Redd two in the book “how big is big”, wrote: “about 8 to 10% of women, may never be able to get through any way to orgasm.” They go on to say, “The reason women don’t have orgasms is not that they’ve lost the ability to have them, but that they haven’t developed the ability to have them. The ability to have an orgasm is something that every woman who wants to can learn to experience. Whether they learn it on their own, by rubbing it against their male partner, or by being guided by an expert, it’s something that can be learned.”
(xi) Whether a woman ejaculates when she orgasms
The answer should be no. Although some scholars claim that girls may also ejaculate when the G-spot is strongly stimulated. However, the existence or non-existence of the G-spot is still a matter of opinion. Some people have even taken the so-called “semen” produced after stimulating the G-spot and had it analyzed. As a result, the so-called “semen” is actually just some glandular fluid (i.e. lubricant). Lubricant and male ejaculation semen are completely different and cannot be compared.
(xii) Why she didn’t have an orgasm
The Heidi Report states that “the female orgasm is innate”. Other sexologists say: “The female orgasm depends on the development of the man’s skill”. Generally speaking, the causes of “no orgasm” are as follows: 1. Insufficient male skill or foreplay. 2.
2. Women are shy or guilty.
3. Fear of pregnancy.
4. Other psychological burdens. Such as: afraid of her mother scolded her, remembering the former intimate relationship with her boyfriend. Fear that you will dump her after sex, fear that you just like her body, fear that people will make fun of her for having small breasts, fear that people will realize that she has too little pubic hair, fear that people will see her scars after the operation, fear that you will play with her and then talk about her… and so on.
(xiii) Sexual organ response during female orgasm
The female sexual organs can be broadly categorized as the labia majora and labia minora in the vulva, and the uterus and vagina in the endocervix.
If you want to understand female arousal and the changes in her reproductive organs, the easiest way is to watch erotic movies or pornographic videos.
The most obvious change is the thickening of the labia majora as the spongy and vascular tissues within the labia majora become engorged with blood.
At the same time, because of the role of the veins, the blood will not flow backward, through the veins swell, the labia majora will become bigger. Because of sexual excitement, blood pressure rises, the blood vessels in the labia minora are full of blood, the more bulging, the stronger, it may be worthwhile to use your fingers to test it, you can understand.
During arousal, the labia majora and minora will swell up to 20% and of course harden. As the clitoris becomes engorged with blood, the glans will be exposed from the foreskin, and the more the glans is exposed, the more the labia minora will naturally spread out to the sides in order to welcome penile penetration.
The labia minora are attached to the lower end of the clitoral foreskin. As the clitoris hardens and becomes engorged with blood, the foreskin pulls on the labia minora, giving them a flap-like appearance. The thickened and hardened labia minora allow the penis to penetrate deeper into the vagina with intense strokes.
The glans, which is exposed from the foreskin due to vaginal arousal, will shrink rapidly when it is about to have an orgasm and will hide inside the foreskin again. As the arousal disappears, the congestion of the labia minora and labia majora decreases and the glans returns to its original state. If we compare the speed of shrinkage with that of the male penis after ejaculation, it is obvious that the recovery of the female penis is much slower.
From this, we can also deduce that the afterglow of a female orgasm lasts longer than that of a male.
(xiv) Other physiological reactions during orgasm
In addition to changes in the sex organs, the “female orgasm” can also be the next four physiological reactions as a criterion for judgment: 1. skin flushing
2. Swelling
3. Muscle Tightening
4. Sweating
During orgasm women sometimes make various sounds or conditions that are indicative of pleasure.
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Dreamy 18%
Crying 12%
Trance 10%
Holding or biting each other hard 23%
Grabbing or pinching males 16%
Bite the bullet 19%
Other 2%
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As for the most common phrases (see the complete sex manual), they are.
GOODIM COMINGFUCK ME HARDERI CANT STOP… and so on.
(xv) Orgasm and genital arousal
In terms of “sexual arousal”, the rankings are as follows.
1. Nucleus ┅┅┅┅┅┅┅98%
2. Labia minora, vaginal opening: 96%
3. Posterior vaginal wall ┅┅┅┅┅63%
5. Anterior vaginal wall ┅┅┅┅┅60%
6. Labia majora ┅┅┅┅┅┅49%
7. Cervix ┅┅┅┅┅36%
*Numbers indicate the percentage of pleasure felt
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(xvi) What can be aroused by caressing?
Many boys in caressing the girl, very do not know how to pity the girl, often make the girl in pain, but also complacent, thinking that the power is profound.
When a girl screams, she sometimes does it because it hurts, not because it’s pleasurable. If you’re going to make her sore with your fingers, she certainly won’t want to keep playing with you.
The purpose of caressing is to do foreplay, which must make the girl feel that you care about her and that you love her. Everyone is not aroused in the same way, and going in and out of the vagina doesn’t always work better than nibbling on an earlobe. Remember! Most women have sex out of love.
Not only suck on her nipples, but also use your tongue to draw circles around her nipples. Foreplay is accomplished with your hands, fingers, and tongue, and the goal is to stir up her biological desires. Keep kissing her, licking her, hugging her, touching her, rubbing her breasts to arouse her, and listening to her breathing to see if it gets heavy.
A woman’s entire body is a “erogenous zone”, meaning that she can feel “pleasure” from head to toe. The most intense pleasure is felt in the clitoris, followed by the breasts.
As for the order of pleasure in other parts, it varies from person to person. Some people feel very excited when their hair is stroked, while others feel pleasure immediately when their hands are held. Therefore, men may wish to caress women from the top of the head to the toes, one by one to find out the other part of the pleasure, and then to stimulate, will increase the degree of excitement.
Proportion of foreplay items carried out by two people before making love.
Lip to lip kissing ┅┅┅┅┅┅99%
*Men caressing women’s breasts… 98%
*Men caressing women’s genitals with their hands…95%
*Men sucking on women’s nipples… 93%
*Women stimulate men’s penises with their hands…91%
*Men caressing women’s genitals with their mouths…54%
*Women caressing men’s penis with their mouths… 49%
(xvii) List of female sexual sensitivities
“Sexiness scale” for women in various occupations (except genitals).
┌──┬───────────────────┐│Items│NipplesLower abdomenBelly buttonArmsThighsFingersHair│
├──┼───────────────────┤│Nurse│685569592908│
│Cosmetologist│810514306105│
│Female teachers│463110080200│
│Model│530912214301│
│Banker│406708041211│
│Female students│612027323704│
│Storekeeper│632619083007│
└───┴───────────────────┘ In addition to the nipple, there is a more sensitive place than the nipple, quite worthy of the boys to develop ° ° ° that is located in the armpits and breasts between the parts, known as “Spence’s mammary glands tail” place. This area is also known as the “G-spot” of the breast.
Of course, the nipple is still very important. This is why some people have come up with the following caressing technique: caressing the nipple with the mouth and tongue, while at the same time gently stroking the tuck to the nipple with the fingers. The fingers should be open and the little finger should be moved little by little. Then the lips leave the nipple and kiss the “end of Spence’s mammary gland”.
(XVIII) The Mystery of Multiple Orgasms in Women
In 1966, Mr. and Mrs. Mast Jonsson published Human Sexual Response, which first proposed that women can have “multiple orgasms” (MULTIPLE ORGASM). Although this claim is said to be based on objective experimental evidence, what is “multiple orgasm”? Even for women themselves, it is always difficult to realize and grasp. Those who are willing to do so have gone through books on sexology, but they are still not very clear about it.
How do you get to the point of multiple orgasms? A group of researchers at the University of Wisconsin in the United States took 805 nurses as their subjects. The results of the survey showed that: those who have experienced “multiple orgasms”, compared with women who have never experienced, there is indeed a different feeling. In addition to understanding the techniques of physical stimulation, psychological stimulation is also introduced at the right time. Their bodies and sexual organs also prove to be more sensitive than those of ordinary women.
Therefore, having multiple orgasms is not an “accident”. You have to understand your own body’s characteristics, choose techniques that will give you full pleasure, and communicate with your partner to let him or her know which methods will satisfy you the most. In addition, in order to move from physical sensitivity to psychological fulfillment, it is necessary to have a full emotional exchange with your partner.
(xix) Pursuit of sexually sensitive girls
Some girls have a strong sense of pleasure and orgasm as soon as they are caressed, which is called “sexual sensitivity”. It is really lucky to know this kind of girl. Boys do not have to work hard to make her excited.
Girls with “sexually sensitive tendencies” usually speak very fast and have moist lips. You might want to keep an eye out for such women around you. If you do, let me know… Ha… (20) Pursuing a shared orgasm
Until now, there are still some women who believe that when a man does that, the longer he lasts, the better, and many advertisements for strong sperm are also contributing to this notion. However, a long, drawn out, and prolonged period of time does not guarantee pleasure. Fifty minutes of foreplay may only result in a five-second orgasm. The ideal situation is that five seconds of foreplay can lead to a fifty-minute orgasm, but this is a myth, so don’t make any mistake when you look for information in the library.
According to a recent survey in Taiwan: nearly half of the couples said that they are not satisfied with their sex life. Many cases are due to “love time” can not match the reason.
People generally think that when a man ejaculates, he is considered to have achieved orgasm, but this is only part of the truth. A man’s “ejaculation” and a woman’s “vaginal contraction” are only physiological reflexes, not the only measure of orgasm. Because even with the physical orgasm of “muscles popping, pelvis lifting, glands secreting”, etc., both parties still can’t reach the “psychological orgasm”.
It’s really embarrassing to have sex with your partner and not be able to connect, to see yourself “coming out of the top” and your partner not responding. However, men in addition to learning “lock sperm and virility” method, when life reaches a certain stage, such as no longer so brave, fierce, strong, it seems to be more need to understand each other’s hearts and minds, in order to jointly pursue the “ejaculation” after another “orgasm”. After ejaculation”, we can pursue another “orgasm” together.
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