Hi! First of all I would like to express my respect to those men who are willing to perform oral sex on women, because there are so few like you. Believe me, I’m not the only woman who says this. Besides, even if some men are willing to do it, they either do it in a clichéd and one-dimensional way or they don’t know how to do it, so maybe this article can help you a little bit. When a woman finds a man with great oral sex skills, she’s going to feel as happy as if she’s found Solomon’s treasure, and she’s not going to give up that man easily. She knows it’s something she can’t find anywhere else. She doesn’t want to reveal it to her girlfriends or else the easily found secret will become a big hit in her circle of friends. So don’t forget, most men can fuck, and a good portion of them do it well, but those who are good at oral sex are more likely to win hearts.
Most women are always worried about their bodies, even if you’re sleeping with the most expensive woman in the world, she’ll still be anxious about what you think of her body. So don’t forget to tell your partner that she’s beautiful, which is always an effective, albeit clichéd, trick, tell her what your favorite part of her body is, tell her everything, and make her trust you enough to bury your head between her legs.
Now it’s time to take a closer look at what you see before you. It’s beautiful, isn’t it? There’s nothing like a pussy to bring out a woman’s own uniqueness. I’ve seen many pussies of different sizes, shapes, and colors, some folded inward like a little girl’s tits, others with thick, soft labia conspicuously greeting you from the doorway, some perched in thick pubic hair, and others covered in a layer of fine, transparent hair. Take a good look at what sets your woman apart, and then tell her what you love about her uniqueness.
Everyone knows that women are more talkative than men, and that doesn’t change even during sex; they respond better to words, so the more you communicate with her, the easier it will be to excite her. While you’re stroking and patting her pussy at the same time, don’t forget to talk to her more, especially about the area you’re stroking.
Now looking at it again and gently parting the labia majora, you see the labia minora and gently lick them if you wish. Then slowly pull the upper part of her pussy apart until you see her clitoris (or nub).
The size of a woman’s clitoris varies, just as your man’s penis varies in length, but that doesn’t matter in terms of her ability to orgasm. It just means that the bigger her clitoris, the bigger the part hidden under the foreskin.
When you go to fondle a woman’s pussy, remember to get your fingers wet. Either with saliva or with her bodily fluids, but always wet, especially when you touch her clitoris. It is important to realize that a woman’s clitoris does not secrete any bodily fluids on its own, and it is extremely sensitive. If your finger is dry, you can easily poke it. But you can’t rush to touch her clitoris just yet, you have to take it one step at a time, before she gets aroused, a woman’s clitoris is very fragile.
Slowly approaching her pussy, women like to be teased more than men. The inner part between her legs is the softest part. Lick it, kiss it, draw all kinds of shapes on it with your tongue. Get as close to her pussy as you can before slowly moving your head away to make her want it more desperately.
Now lick the folds between her thighs and pussy, burying your nose in her hair. Stroke her slit back and forth with your tongue to give her a thrill, but don’t apply any downward pressure. When she starts to tense up uncontrollably and raises her feet so you can get closer to her, you can take the next step: press your tongue against her slit.
Kiss her, gently at first, then gradually with more force, then use your tongue to part her labia majora. When she is fully open, move your tongue up and down her pussy. Gently spread her legs apart with your hands. Remember that everything you do while you are tasting a woman should be gentle.
The sensation of licking her with your tongue is extraordinary, and it may even arouse her whole body and mind, because at this point her clitoris is going to need a lot more care. Then don’t hesitate to see if her clitoris has hardened so much that it has broken out of the foreskin that originally covered it, and if so, lick it. If not, maybe it’s still waiting for you to discover it. Then put your tongue on the top of her pussy to feel the clitoris. You may not feel it right away, but even if you can’t locate the little pearl, you can still bring it to the surface by licking the skin covering the top of the clitoris with your tongue. Gradually lick harder and gently press her back into the foreskin.
Gently spread the labia majora apart and give her clitoris a quick flick with your tongue, whether it’s covered or not. When you feel her whole body tense up and she is about to climax, make circles with your lips and take the clitoris in your mouth. Start sucking on it slowly and see how your woman’s face reacts. If she can hold out, then go harder, or if she’s particularly into it, go even harder. Follow her rhythm and move with her if she arches her hips into the air from the tension of her orgasm. Your steaming mouth should still be on her clit, as much as you can keep it there. At this point most women will say the same thing: “Don’t stop, don’t ever stop!”
Don’t laugh, there’s a reason for that. A lot of men do it, but then tend to stop too soon. It’s like a blowjob, as much as it’s worth learning and experimenting with. I know a guy who is extremely lame at intercourse, but he’s top notch at oral sex, so he’s never worried about a lack of women, and always has a string of big crabs waiting behind him.
To continue tasting your pussy… You have another trick to enhance your partner’s pleasure. While she’s enjoying you sucking on her clitoris, why don’t you finger-fuck her as well? She will always welcome it throughout the process.
In addition to the erogenous zone around the clitoris, a woman still has a particularly sensitive sexual area, which is the top of her vagina, and it is also the place where your fingers should be rubbed repeatedly. Because your penis is so far away, you have to let your fingers get close to it.
Use two fingers, one is too thin and three are so thick that you can’t get too far inside. Before that you need to make sure that your fingers are wet and do not inflame her skin. Slide your fingers in slowly, gradually increasing the speed, in a rhythmic fashion. Accelerate as she needs to and listen to her breathing.
She’ll let you know what you need to do, and if you suck her clit with your mouth while rubbing her vagina with your fingers, that gives her far more stimulation than the work of your single penis. So you have reason to believe that she will have a much more satisfying and intense orgasm. If you’re not sure, go ahead and observe her reaction. Every woman’s orgasm is characterized differently; some women’s nipples harden when they get aroused, while others only do so when they climax. Your female partner may be flushed or may start shaking. By knowing her characteristics, you will become a more considerate and attentive lover.
Don’t let go of her clitoris with your mouth as she reaches orgasm, and don’t let go during the whole thing. As she gradually calms and eases down from the first wave of her orgasm, lick your tongue slightly downward, with your lips close to the top of her clitoris, as your tongue begins to move in and out of her vagina, and if your fingers are still there as well, move them together, gently, of course, as her organ will become extremely sensitive.
If you do it right, it may lead your female partner to multiple orgasms. You know what that means?
The subtext of it? A woman once had 56 orgasms in this situation, what do you think 56 orgasms did for her? –Anytime you want, she’s there for you.
There are also some women who like a man to rub his fingers in and out of their posterior while their pussy is being savored.
The last piece of advice I would give you is that after you have made her climax, don’t leave her alone, continue to coax her with sweet words, caress her body, her breasts, and don’t stop until she is completely calm. A man can go to bed with peace of mind after ejaculation, while a woman naturally prefers that her lover continues to warm her up for a short time after sex.
Oral sex can be one of the most passionate of sexual experiences, but it requires effort on your part. Don’t be in a hurry, pay more attention to your partner’s various signals, and of course, most importantly, you should experience pleasure from it yourself. Hopefully, you can keep your partner’s smile forever!
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