If you’re really in love with your mom and you want to have sex with her, and she’s willing, here are the Ten Commandments of Sex with Mom that you should read. The Ten Commandments were written for you, but reading them with her will help your relationship.
1. Don’t present yourself as an expert on lovemaking.
First of all, skill is not the most important thing when it comes to having sex with your mom. Usually, your mom’s experience in having sex is no worse than yours, and showing off your skills and sexual experience in front of her will make her think that you’re a big slut with no love. She’s willing to have sex with you not because she’s heard you talk about picking up girls, but because she loves you.
That’s right, between mother and son, sometimes there are one-night stands, and when you’re done, you pretend it never happened, and you don’t have to read the Ten Commandments.
The way to make your mom fall for you is to be considerate of her. Considerate when making love flows from your concern for her feelings, not ashamed to ask, ask her where the most sensitive parts, to take her to see it, ask her what position she likes to use with you, and when she has time to rehearse, after making love, care about whether she has an orgasm, have an orgasm a few more times. You should also tell her, she did a good job, you want her to do something, that pipe openly and honestly put forward.
If you start out thinking you have a PhD in sex and make love to her the way you want to, you may not get your mom’s pleasure.
2. Don’t take anything for granted.
Don’t think that just because your mom agrees to have sex with you, you want to take for granted that you want her to do anything.
Keep in mind that just because she’s in bed with you doesn’t mean she has no boundaries, she may retain her mother’s dignity and reserve. Don’t treat your mom like a whore, bed manners should not be neglected, for example, when undressing her be sensitive to the mood and her mood, she may not be willing to let you strip her naked.
But you are polite and accommodating to her, making her feel noble and proper, and she will either reciprocate by saying that she is not always willing to get naked for you, and that asking to get her naked in the first place will embarrass her. Sometimes people have had sex a few times before she’s willing to be completely naked because she’s not your average girl, she’s your mom and has extra mental barriers.
The way to back off is to each undress, at least, she will take off her panties before she can have sex with you. If, even the bra is not off, is the lack of determination performance, does not make sense. However, after she sees you stripping off your clothes in a big way (never lewdly), she will be embarrassed and strip off automatically.
Don’t expect her to do a striptease in front of your son, she may have to hide in the bathroom to undress, and it’s good bedside manner to put on a robe right after sex. She may not be used to sleeping naked with you, so give her time to get used to it.
Also, be sensitive to her reactions when caressing and kissing, and don’t touch her where she doesn’t want you to.
Lastly, it’s also best to have a tacit agreement on the amount of lovemaking, and don’t assume that you must be the one who wants to have more sex. You have to understand that your mom may be in the so-called tiger’s age, you have to work and go to school, and you may be the one with the lack of energy.
Also, the lighting of the place of lovemaking, don’t fight with mom for the length of the day, always respect her, accommodate her, this is to do the son of due courtesy. You can make her feel and you have sex, like a royal treatment, the next time you will have to inch forward the negotiation capital. (For more details, see my book “also mother and wife”).
3. Don’t compare her to other women.
She’s just like any other woman who, after having sex with you, will ask you if you think she did a good job and how she compares to your other girlfriends.
It’s a trap because whatever you say, you hit a wall.
If she doesn’t ask, you’d better not mention it. If she really forced you to say, then, you should look at her with deep affection, showing that you are sincere, it is best to kiss her gently before saying: “My sweetie, no one can compare with you, because I only have you as a mom. You are always the best. No one can compare to you.”
This is the type of line that you’d better have practiced beforehand, because she’s bound to ask you about it.
Like any other woman, your mom will suddenly ask you why you love her over your former so-and-so girlfriend, etc., and you’ll have to be prepared to speak in response.
In short, the trick is to highlight her unparalleled special status as your mom, and talk about other women’s strengths and weaknesses will get you in trouble.
4. Don’t assume that mom is already using birth control.
Don’t assume that your mom is already on the pill, had a ligation or stopped her period, and having sex with your mom should be discussed with her first to best figure it out.
Condoms are the safest method of birth control and protection against STDs. Even if your mom has been spayed, she should still wear a condom. Unless your mom is your only sexual partner, wearing a condom is the best sexual habit, and the small act of wearing a prepared condom and wearing a condom before entering her body lets your mom know that you’re a responsible son who can feel comfortable playing love games with you.
If you want to have sex with the most delicate sensations and don’t want anything between you, ask your mom to do birth control beforehand or get your vasectomy. And, you make sure to wear a condom when you have sex with other girls in order to protect your beloved mom. You let your mom know that you will never sleep with anyone else for her, and she will be deeply touched.
5. Don’t run away from the possibility of living with her.
You must really love your mom if you can have sex with her. If she is divorced again, (lots of single moms in modern society) and you are not married, you better sit down and talk through whether you intend to be each other’s sex partners for a long time.
Sometimes, when your mom asks you about your dignity, you have to take the initiative to show that you and her are not just for fun. Since it has been your dream to live with her since you were young, but you doubt whether you can live with her for the rest of your life, you can propose to her that you live with her in some kind of cohabitation (for more details, please refer to my book, “Mother and Child Ties”).
Once you have a consensus, you will arrange who is going to move in, how to arrange your life, who is responsible for household and other practical issues, which should not be ignored. You have the responsibility to provide for your mother, but if she doubles as your sexual partner, it’s a bit like being a married couple, and the issue of money has to be made clear so that it doesn’t affect your mother-son relationship.
Of course, your mom wouldn’t have sex with you for money. But the fact that she has slept with you may make you a bigger financial liability to her, and you’d better make that clear up front so you don’t hurt your feelings over unnecessary things later.
6. Don’t be reckless in wanting to officially marry your mom.
Trying to officially marry your mom is illegal in any country. The idea is impractical and dangerous, don’t try it.
Some colorful articles will suggest that you go to some “backward country” such as Mexico to get married, even if you go and get a certificate, it will not change the view of the law, and you will leave more evidence of the violation of the law.
What you and your mom do as two adults, with the door to your room closed, is your private life and no one is going to interfere or get in the way, but you go and make it official and hoodwink the local authorities, a momentary pain in the ass, with serious consequences because it’s against the law, so remember that, and don’t even think about it in that way.
If you feel the need to do something for the wedding ceremony, you can go to some resort for your honeymoon and spend a little bit of money and a wedding will be arranged for you. You can also buy her a ring and ask her to marry you in a serious way, put it on her and swear to God that you will always love her, or hang an intimate photo in the bedroom, all of which will add to the atmosphere of the wedding.
Mind you, this really gives you the feeling of being married, and your relationship peters out, like any other married person. So be warned, she is having sex with you and never wants you to treat her like a yellow face, like your dad used to, she wants to be your lover forever.
7. Don’t suppress guilt.
In fact, the biggest obstacle to making your mom your sexual partner is not external, but internal. You are bound to have “guilt” and the best way to deal with it is not to repress it, but to deal with it.
Those who can’t handle the psychological pressure should stop having sex with their moms. If your mom can’t cope with it either, don’t force her, there is no happiness in forcing.
Each person has a different ability to handle stress and a different ability to deal with guilt. Because the world does not allow mothers and children to have and maintain a sexual relationship, having sex with one’s mother becomes a shocking act that breeds guilt. These religious, ethical, and moral norms are to be respected, but on the other hand, these norms were created for people, so they are dead, but people are alive.
To deal with guilt, to expert counseling, here can only be simple words, not away from three points: First, can not force, to be consensual, no love-based sexual relations, can not be long.
Secondly, since mothers and children can see each other in flesh and silk, and make love to their bodies, they should not be ashamed of their inner feelings and should not hide them. Honest communication helps to express emotions.
Third, mutual delivery, support each other, life and death, although ten million people I am, can have this determination, will overcome all difficulties.
8. Do not harbour misconceptions about having children.
The biggest psychological barrier to having sex with your mom is that you’ll have idiot imbecile offspring, so you guys probably ruled that out a long time ago.
However, this is not necessarily the case, and with the development of genetic research, this concern can be ruled out. In fact, any couple should have a blood test before having children to track down family genetic disorders. You want to have children with your mom, and after you’ve done the routine tests and there are no obvious problems, you can go ahead and pass on the family line with confidence.
Modern medical advances have reduced the risk of women giving birth and extended the time frame for women to give birth. If you intend to make your mother pregnant and create a family with her, you can discuss this with her, and if the two of you are willing to do so, you will be able to have children of your own. Of course, you and your mother should seek a consensus on the names of your children in order to avoid any regrets in the future.
In addition, to make your mother’s belly, can make you a momentary excitement, but the responsibility for children is a lifetime, you have to understand to your mother to raise your flesh and blood, how much to pay, you can not give up on her, so you can not try to be a momentary pleasure, or mistakenly think that the children can be increased in your lovemaking fun (please refer to no donkey’s “what is love”).
9. Don’t drag your feet.
All relationships have timings and deadlines, and making love to your mom is not necessarily a long-term arrangement, but sometimes it is a short-lived affair between two parties who have a common need at the time. All things go well with fate, do not necessarily need to be a long time, and mom as a lover is also the same reason.
If you can’t get along, you should break up in style, and leave it all behind, so we can get along. Leaving good memories and good relations, meet in the future, there is no stigma, may be able to renew the relationship.
If, after a long period of cohabitation, you find someone suitable, you shouldn’t get in the way. This is not a situation that usually occurs on your mom’s side, as she has come to the point where she intends to stay with you for the rest of her life. So, as always, to avoid pain, think clearly and speak clearly, because if the lover you abandon is your mother, you will become a sinner for all time.
It’s not good if your mom agrees that you have a new love interest and lets you enjoy all of them, because your new love interest may not be understanding, (see my humble book Between the Beds for more on this).
10. Don’t be negligent.
Finally, having sex with your mom, nourished by love, outsiders can easily see that you are in a different mood. Sexual relationship with your mom is maintained for a long time, or live with her, or even after having children, it is even more important not to be negligent, so as not to give the truth.
Although you can call each other husband and wife in bed, men and women love each other, but in public, we should avoid excessive affectionate behavior. Old father and young wife will be looked at, not to mention the two mothers and children talk about love, to people pointing, mother will not be able to stand, so outside behavior should be appropriate.
Beware of walls at home. In modern city life, each family cleans up after itself, and your neighbors don’t know your last name or your relationship. It is important that you remain mysterious and not get too involved in the community.
It is most difficult to explain to your relatives. You may get the understanding of your aunts and uncles, but you will be opposed by your siblings, so it is better not to let them know about your relationship. It is better for them to ask questions, or to question them, or to deny them. Those who really care about you will support you if they see you happy and joyful together. Those who are strongly against it, the mouths born on their faces, want to create any rumors against you, just let them be, and never come back to each other again.
Love is great, and you will surely be able to cope with it, needless to say.
The best way is to emigrate to a foreign country to avoid a lot of gossip. Before emigrating, if you can put her husband’s surname (your father’s surname) on your travel documents, it will help you to live as husband and wife in foreign countries, and foreigners will treat you as husband and wife once they see you share the same surname.
However, your dual relationship with your mom should not be divulged to the public, so be careful in everything.